Hi friend,
Every time I talk about the innate desirability, attractiveness or sexuality of fat women, men roll up to let the world know that unlike the rabble, they like fat women. A lot. In fact, they even have a thing for them, these swains admit bashfully, waiting for the just desserts of admiration and dates that must surely spring from such good-heartedness.
My dudes.
Listen.
We do not care that voluptuousness makes you, internet stranger, have pantsfeels. We don’t care! Ever! At all! Not a single one of us is thinking,
“Oh, thank goodness that Random Bob from the internet wants to f*ck me. The culture-wide discrimination, bigotry and oppression that keep me from living the same kind of life thin people do is clearly over. Long live Bob!”
No. We’re edging away because your inevitable appearance, whenever fat liberation and sexuality are brought up, to display your pantsfeels is *gross.* It’s creepy. We don’t want it.
And if we do want it, we’ll seek out dating- and sex-specific contexts where your expressions of feelings for the fat ladies are more appropriate.
(And yes, it’s almost always cisgender men who identify as fat admirers.)
“But wait!” the fat admirer cries. “I can love fat women and respect them, too!”
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