Let's talk about the illusion of artistic genius.
I continually fall into the trap of believing that what I create must be a pure, spontaneous, perfect expression of something deep inside.
I often find myself rejecting the idea of planning, sketching, or practicing things before diving straight into a final piece, because in my warped view, “real” artists are so masterful that they can create beauty out of thin air.
Where did these limiting beliefs come from? It could be the way we venerate famous artists, as artistic geniuses who were simply born with innate talent. It could also be that the creative process is so often hidden from the world - only the best 10% is shown to the public on shiny websites and white gallery walls, while the rejects - the other 90% of work created - never sees the light of day.
The truth is, Rembrandt didn't come out of the womb painting sublime portraits - it took him decades of study to master his craft. Another truth: most of what you create will end up in the trash, especially in the beginning.
For me, it's a hard truth to swallow, and it's really hard to remember when the ego is involved!
Whatever your creative interests - floristry, embroidery, cooking, painting - know that you're probably going to suck at first, but that's OK! Remind yourself that getting swept up in the process of creation is the whole point - the final result is just a side effect.