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I've got a problem, and I need your help! Here's what last week's Body Liberation Guide metrics looked like:

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Image description: A bar graph showing 2,884 emails sent, 2,872 delivered and only 450 opened. 

One of the quirks of modern email providers is that they work really hard to protect their users from spam. Which is a good thing! But in this case, it appears that overzealous spam filtering kicked in when I switched email-sending services a while back. The spam filters need to learn to let my emails through again, and they can do that best if you help me out by whitelisting my email address by adding lindley@bodyliberationphotos.com to your contact list or address book. Look how many other folks you'll be helping out, too!

 

Each email service is a bit different, but you can follow the steps below to whitelist a specific email address or domain in Gmail so these emails don’t go to spam.

  1. Go to your Gmail account
  2. Click the gear icon in the top-right, then select Settings
  3. Click the Filters and Blocked Addresses tab
  4. Click Create a New Filter
  5. In the pop-up window, enter the email address or domain (e.g., @flodesk.com) that you want whitelisted in the From field
  6. Click Create Filter
  7. Check "Never send it to Spam"
  8. Click Create Filter

This is a strong signal to email providers—i.e., Gmail, Outlook, Yahoo—that you see me as a safe source, and it will encourage them to let my emails through to everyone who wants them. I so appreciate your help!

Hi friend,

 

It’s a very troubling form of thin privilege to focus on the gains of body positivity when fat people are still left out.

 

One of the most common pieces of pushback I see against fat acceptance and the need to represent fat and very fat people is, “Why are you so negative? Can’t we all just celebrate all the progress that’s been made? You’re so divisive!” It’s often accompanied by more-enlightened-than-thou comments about wanting to focus on “the good,” as if those of us confronting oppression are somehow more negative than those who want to cover up and ignore it.

 

Of course it’s a good thing that a slightly larger slice of the population is now considered to have “good” bodies! It’s a good thing that more people are feeling empowered to take control of their own body image and accept their bodies! And of course all sorts of people have body image issues!

But. Not everyone is being represented. Some of us are still being actively oppressed.

 

The last time I checked the account of @iweigh, one of the most popular mainstream #bodypositivity accounts (and one often recommended to me as a source of body size diversity), I had to scroll back 11 weeks to find an image of a fat body. (And another seven weeks to find a second image.)

 

This is a long one, so please read the rest here >>

Warmly,
Lindley

 

P.S. If you'd like to share this week's thought, it exists in blog form here.

My favorite image this week, from Body Liberation Stock contributor Kathryn Hack:

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Image description: A black-and-white image of a fat person sitting in a wheelchair with arms extended playfully.

Recent from Me

The Conversation

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Image description: A teal square with two round images: one of Kristine Zaftig and a drawing of a fat woman jumping into water in front of a rainbow. Text reads, "Kristine Zaftig. You don't have to love your body to treat your body with love" plus the post URL. End image description.

In this month's Ask a Fat Creator interview, we're talking to Kristine Zaftig, a fat and fat-positive artist who showcases women of color in her paintings. Find out how she discovered body acceptance, what inspires her work and what she eats for breakfast!

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Image description: An orange nylon-coated dead blow hammer rests on top of a black bathroom scale on a concrete sidewalk.

Smashing diet culture metaphorically is great, but smashing it literally feels even better. There’s no statement quite as satisfying as breaking up with diet culture by smashing your bathroom scale!

 

Whether you’re recovering from an eating disorder, learning to reject dieting and accept your body or moving further in your body acceptance journey, it can be very liberating to finally say that you’re no longer going to let the number on the scale define you.

Stock photo credits are once again Patreon rewards!

Once upon a time, the Body Liberation Photos Patreon (why yes, that's mine) offered credits at Body Liberation Stock, my fat-positive stock image site, as part of the rewards given to patrons.

 

Alas, a change in the features offered by the platform I was using for stock photo hosting meant that I could no longer offer true credits. For a couple of years, I bodged together sort-of-credits for patrons until yet another feature disappeared and I was forced to resort to sending out less-satisfying discount coupons instead.

 

After nearly a year of work to move Body Liberation Stock to a new platform, I'm so pleased to announce that stock photo credits are once again part of the Patreon rewards!

Quick Resources: Building Better Body Image

Hi! I'm Lindley.

- she/her

- photographer

- author

 

Image description: Lindley, a fat white woman, is shown sitting in a cafe with salmon-pink walls. She has shoulder-length blonde hair and glasses, and is wearing a black top with a translucent blue-and-white patterned jacket. Her hands are on the tabletop in front of her.

Hi! I'm Lindley.

 

I'm a professional photographer (she/her, pronounced LIN-lee) who celebrates the unique beauty of bodies that fall outside conventional "beauty" standards. I live outside Seattle, WA. 

 

I talk about and photograph fat folks because representation of large bodies in the world is vital to our body liberation.

 

 

People come to me for:

  • Body-safe portrait, boudoir and small business photography sessions
  • Diverse, body-positive stock photos
  • Fat fine art photographic prints
  • Health at Every Size (HAES)-aligned consulting, writing and editing
  • The Body Love Shop, a curated resource for body-positive and fat-positive art and products

Pssst! Did a friend forward you this email? If you'd like to get your own body liberation guide every week, just drop your email address here.

 

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