Being a teen means taking chances, risks and going all out to learn from your mistakes. If you are not a safe landing space for when she falls then who is, during her most vulnerable moments? Do you trust the person whose arms she is falling into, or are you throwing her to the wolves? Who is on her team? Or what behaviours does she engage in during difficult times? Drugs, drinking, risky sexual behaviour, unhealthy eating habits? Pay attention to who or what is her safe landing place. This really should be you!