Okay, so...

I saved all the good things

for you, my friend.

Perspective is Everything.

I’m sure you’ve heard that before, but right now it’s landing differently in a real, tangible, trajectory shifting short of way. Two weeks ago, I was confessing to a friend my sadness and fear about not being able to own a home one day. Owning a home: picking the paint color, organizing the fridge, pulling things out of storage once and for all. To be able to establish a place that is “mine” has become this milestone, or more accurately stated, this idol that I’ve been holding onto as ultimate. The key to my version of the good life.

 

Fast forward a week, less than a week actually, to two days later and I found myself powerless (literally without power) and displaced in the comfort of some dear friends’ home with 6 adults, 7 children, and 2 dogs in the middle of a snowstorm. At that moment, I was praising the Lord that amid the chaos, I didn’t also have to worry about pipes bursting, falling sheetrock, or frozen pools. Just two days later, I was praising the Lord for NOT having the very thing I have been longing for. In the changing circumstance and the different surroundings, the still small voice of the Lord kindly reminded me that perspective really is 

E V E R Y T H I N G.

 

Where I can see that lesson playing out in my life and the lives of those around me, I’ve also been seeing it so clearly from the word of God. We’ve been studying the book of Ecclesiastes at church and if you haven’t read it or studied it before... now is the time. Ecclesiastes has been a long-time favorite because I see so many daily parallels to its author’s conclusion - life under the sun isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. Day after day, one way or another, we are confronted with the reality that the things of this world never seem to live up to the hope of our expectations.

 

Our circumstances change. Our feelings are fickle. So perfectly evidenced by my confession and praise from one day to the next. Today I need this, but once tomorrow comes, I will want that. No matter what it is, the truth remains the same: the things of this world will always fall short. Even beautiful homes with insulated pipes or whatever it is that you try to elevate or put on a pedestal will not fulfill your dream as the key to the “good life.”

 

For those of us that follow Jesus, the good life isn’t found in whatever sits atop our pedestals. It isn’t found in a home that is mine. It’s not found in achievement, accolades, or any measure of success or money. The good life doesn’t exist in this world under the sun. No. The good life is good because our debt has been paid and our lives secured. The good life is good because this world and its temporary pleasure and pains aren’t all there is. In Christ, we’ve been afforded access to a perspective that exists beyond the sun.

 

Our perspective, where we fix our eyes, the lens through which we view and interpret the world, matters. It affects the way we respond to our circumstances, the way we feel about the life we’ve been given, it’s the difference between greed and generosity, envy and contentment, a heart of gratitude, and a heart of wanting.

 

 Friends, where does your perspective lie? What are you chasing or holding onto as ultimate that you think will satisfy? May we lift our gaze from our current circumstance and shift our perspective beyond the sun. 

For beyond the sun, the best is yet to come. 

 

Things to know

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 Things I'm loving right this very minute!

 

On my nails | LD by Olive and June

It's almost the color of this font and I'm loving it as a winter to spring transition color.

On repeat | Drivers License by Olivia Rodrigo

What is better than an angsty breakup song? 

If you can't find me, check | Hudson House Happy Hour

The best burger and coldest martini glass in Dallas and you can get them both half price from 3-6pm every. single. day. Who wants to meet me there?

In my ears | How to Navigate a Faith Crisis - The Lazy Genius Podcast #197

I love the Lazy Genius and all of her brilliant life-hacks. I'm also a big Erin Moon fan. What is also true is that I don't align with these women in every theological area or way of thinking, we think differently. That is okay, I can still learn from them. I can't endorse every idea in this episode, but I found it to be helpful in thinking about how to support people through their own faith crisis. If nothing else, the benediction at the end of the episode will bless you.

I'd screenshot this...

Kim's Tortellini Soup

48 oz Vegetable Broth

1 Block of Cream Cheese

2 cans of Italian Seasoned Diced Tomatoes

20 oz Cheese Tortellini

2 Handfuls of Spinach

3 tsp of Italian Seasoning

16 oz Italian Sausage 

Parmesan Cheese

 

Brown sausage in a pan. Once cooked, add sausage, diced tomatoes, vegetable broth, cream cheese and Italian season to crockpot. Cook on low for 3 hours. After 3 hours, whisk, add spinach and package of tortellini and cook for another 1-2 hours. 

 

Serve with crusty bread and sprinkle of parmesan cheese. 

 

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 I really can't tell you how long I have been dreaming of sharing a newsletter with meaningful words and fun finds. I am praying this space is a bright spot in your inbox. 

Thanks for being here!

Marissa

 

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