I've debated writing this, because I honestly wouldn't want anyone to think that I'm complaining, being ungrateful or having a pity-party in their inbox… but I think it's important to be open about this, because it can affect how we feel about ourselves so much. So here goes…
Truth #1: if I'd had a new booking for every person in the last few months who's told me “I've been loving your posts on Insta”, “You've been killing it with your content recently”, or “Looks like you're doing really great, you must be so busy!”… I'd probably be fully booked for the next 3 months.
Truth #2: … I have one shoot booked for March, three enquiries that I'm currently dealing with, and a couple of projects that I know will materialise in the next few months, but no idea when exactly. 🤷‍♀️
I'm not sharing this with you because I'm looking for sympathy. (It actually feels pretty scary admitting this right now, although I've learnt to live with the highs and lows of self-employment.) I'm sharing this because I want you to remember that you absolutely cannot measure someone's success by what you see online.
Perhaps the person who says they're fully booked for the next 3 months has a part-time job on the side and doesn't have the capacity to take on a lot of clients for their own business.
Perhaps the photographer who always seems to be sharing new work is shooting for free a lot of the time to build up their portfolio.
Perhaps the graphic designer who is currently juggling 5 different clients has just come out of a few bad months with barely any work booked in.