It’s only as time passes that cohesion becomes more and more clear. We make sense out of our experiences with time, form a story to share, and pass it on to others.
Remember that as you’re embarking on your own journey and comparing it to other people’s stories. The bumps and WTFs and oopsies and “do I even know what the fuck I’m doing?” moments are part of everyone’s process. They’re certainly a part of mine.
And then somehow, eventually, like the other people you admire, you will make patterns and art out of it all.