Hi First name / friend!
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Ok let me share this with you real quick - there is a difference between loads and burdens. A load is the work that is on our plate, that is our responsibility, our thing. A burden though, is a special circumstance that you cannot carry on your own.Â
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Think of it like this - your load is like your knapsack - and you won't be able to carry your own if you keep taking things out of peoples' knapsacks. People have to carry their own loads.Â
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BUT. Community exists to help shoulder one another's burdens, the boulders that just cannot be carried alone.Â
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I found this to be a super helpful distinction that is helping me set better boundaries. I hope this helps you too.Â
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Such love for you all.Â
Em✨
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