Dear Sacred Rebel, Change Maker, Big Hearted Business Shaker,
I have something to share with you, a note like none other I've ever written before. Please do gift yourself the opportunity to read it through, because if you're one of the courageous leaders meant to receive this, I really don't want you to miss it.
This isn't a long essay on leadership or life purpose, but it may contain the one decision at the bottom of this note that is powerful enough to change the path of your life, your leadership, and your impact.
I see you. I know you possess oceans full of courage, determination, and intention. You've been working so hard, for so long.
And right now something is missing. A sense of deep meaning in your work, a well from which you can draw creative energy. There’s a stuckness along the path and you’ve lost the sense of ‘living fully.’
Time for you and what you care about is relegated to weekends and short vacations that must be “earned” and there’s a disconnect between the you who shows up at work and the you who craves to live and work in a way that lights your soul on fire.
I get it, because I’ve been there. My life used to feel so different and I believe know there is another way.
🔥Can one 'ah-ha' moment today really put you on a more joyful, purpose-full, impactful path tomorrow? Yep. Mine did.
🔥Is it actually possible to choose to live and lead freely, completely, and with more energy? Yes. I have.
🔥Does one act of deep inner listening have the power to change your life? Yeah. Mine did.
A personal story…stick with me for a minute…this might resonate…
For years I shoved down the discomfort of frustration, loneliness, feeling like I was beating my head against a wall, screaming into an empty room, and the burnout of doing something I didn’t 1000% believe in. Until I could not.
I began to question my path and what had driven me thus far in my corporate persona of endless striving and to-do lists, self-inflicted pressure to be productive, always “busy,” over-achieving, and an emphasis on my masculine traits with a de-emphasis of feminine qualities.
I worried this predictable hamster wheel was all I would have to look back on.
As a Corporate Responsibility Director, I spent 14 years crafting my ‘dream job,’ working up to my goal salary, challenging fashion’s capitalistic systems to operate in new ways, traveling to places and meeting people who expanded my heart and my thinking.
And yet, I didn’t feel soul-on-fire good like a dream job ‘should.’ I felt frustrated, exhausted, and like my contributions were somehow not enough. And I was taking my discomfort out on my body, my relationships, and other emotional areas in my life
I wondered who I would be without this work? What is it I REALLY care about?… The scary thing was, I didn’t know the answers. Or what I would do even if I did.
And the stunning question: What if I make no changes and keep living this way?
I knew something had to give…But I wasn’t sure where to turn or what to do.
Maybe in the same way you are feeling lost right now?
A life changing ‘ah-ha’…
One fateful trip to Sri Lanka in 2018 changed my life. I challenged myself to try new things, meet new people, go to this new country. I intuitively knew by taking myself out of my comfort zone I would gain clarity for the unknown I felt looming in my future.
A shockingly simple - and at the same time confounding - ah-ha emerged as I digested that first visit.
In Sri Lanka I had seen myself truly joyful. And I realised how deeply unhappy I really was.
In Sri Lanka I felt like I met for the first time - or remembered - the happiest, healthiest, most confident and free version of me.
When was the last time you were this version of yourself?
I realized it was only me standing in my own way. Blocking my way to living in alignment with my purpose and values…even if at the time I didn't really have an idea of what that meant.
We get to choose to create our lives differently, walk an unprescribed path in a new way and stand for and in our values every day.
And my life hasn't looked the same since.
This invitation may only resonate with a few of you. The big hearted rebels ready right now to step into a new way of leading and living in 2022.
Maybe this invitation is even a little bit scary to you.
A few bold leaders are willing to risk making 2022 the year you up your impact game, experience more full body yes's to joy, and connect wholesomely with your purpose by saying YES to a transformative experience that has not been possible before now.