As we mentioned in June's newsletter, our biggest goal for the summer of 2022 is to focus more time and energy on learning – professionally and personally.
And as we've been slowing down to read more books, talk to people we admire and cast a refined vision for the future, we thought it would be sweet to share a couple of the broad lessons that we're currently learning. Maybe they'll be an encouragement to you wherever you're at.
Here are both of our answers:
Jesús: "Turn your ‘loss’ into ‘lessons’ by asking more questions."
Reliving my life in hindsight a lot of times can make me feel regretful when the outcome wasn't what I wanted. And, if I'm being vulnerably honest, the last few months have been humbling for me as I've been taking time to pause and reflect on the past.
I like referring to "failures" as "lessons." I prefer not to call them "failures" because I gain something from a lesson. Rather than lose and feel defeated, I win.
I'm relearning that in order for me to grow, I MUST embrace my discomfort: I have to 1) acknowledge my personal responsibility in whatever outcome (without guilting myself too hard LOL) and 2) embrace that I lack some knowledge or skillset. What's remarkable is that I realize the more I ask, the more opportunities I have to learn. And by not avoiding that discomfort and acknowledging my lack, it's inspired me to close the gap between what I do and don't know.
I've honestly been loving embracing this attitude because I've allowed myself to learn a lot. And I love it.
Anna: "Slow progress is still progress."
This one's a lesson that I'll probably spend my whole life learning – but it's been especially prevalent this year as we've faced unexpected challenges, changes in plans, and things that I tend to wish I could press the fast forward button on.
For context, I'm notoriously quite critical of myself. I'm sure I'm not alone there. I usually set high bars and big goals, and if I'm not doing what feels like "enough" on any given day (or things aren't going as I planned), it's generally pretty easy to judge my progress in ways that I would NEVER imagine judging a friend.
I know this isn't very healthy; I'm actively working on it. And putting more focus on embracing slow progress has been a huge means of encouragement for me in the process of seeking growth in this area of my life.
When I can remind myself that tomorrow isn't promised, I feel more grateful for the present moment or day. I'm learning that the pace of our progress really doesn't matter as long as we're regularly showing up for our goals and just trying our best. And we must remember at the end of each day that our best is good enough.