October 9, 2022

 
Hi First name / there,
I’m writing from Miami, where Geoff and I headed last week to mark Yom Kippur with family. I don’t know about you, but fall always makes me feel nostalgic and crave new routines (plus, the Jewish High Holidays signify the start of a new year!). But ever since I caught covid during the first week of the semester, I’ve felt a little bit like I’m playing catch-up all the time, and struggling to really settle. Hence why this newsletter is landing in your inbox a couple of days late. 
 
I assumed dropping back to a bi-weekly publication schedule would bring ease, but strangely, it’s left me feeling a little like what week is it? At the same time, I’ve been working away on my website refresh and rebrand (it’s like… 95% there!), which of course has me thinking about ways to improve A Place to Call Home for you all (and for me!). So, without overcommitting, I want to share that you might start to hear from me more frequently again, and the content is going to shift a little. Let’s dive in. 
 
How big is your home? Does it feel big enough? 
 
I was scrolling Twitter recently and was struck by this tweet from Jenny Schuetz, an urban economist and researcher at Brookings who I’ve referenced a few times in past newsletters. 
 
Like most things on Twitter, it’s important to not take one tweet at face value – it just doesn’t tell the whole story. I’m fairly certain Jenny’s referencing how folks reacted to her tweet about this story, which describes a young person who lives in a 95-square-foot apartment in Tokyo. People were kind of pissed at her for suggesting that this is a morals issue, versus an opportunity for greedy investors to cram people into unlivable, tiny spaces and charge them a ton of money. 
 
This is the part of the housing policy discourse that makes me feel like I know absolutely nothing. 
 
When someone suggests we need to modify zoning laws and building codes to make it easier to build (much) smaller apartments so that more people can afford to live in that city or community, their assumptions about market economics, cultural norms, morality, lived experience, and so much more are all wrapped up in that suggestion. Twitter isn’t real life, and also Twitter is a place where really divergent points of view can have a platform. 
 
How are we supposed to make sense of this? It’s tough to identify “trusted sources” because each person who talks about housing contains a ton of varying identities and belief systems, particularly ones about the way the economy operates (or how they think it should operate). But I think it’s important for people with privilege (class, race, property ownership status, and so much more) to understand the housing debate because they (we, I…) are uniquely positioned to have an impact on local housing policy. Because most of these decisions are made at the local level, and people can, for better or worse, actually have an impact. 
 
How big should our homes actually be? And how do we avoid policy changes that open the floodgates to greedy capitalists and do nothing to make it more affordable for people to put a roof over their heads? How might a single person experiencing homelessness feel about home size, versus a single young professional who values living near the office or fun city stuff? These aren’t questions I can answer, but they’re questions I’m glad I’m aware of now. I hope you feel the same, First name / friend.
 
I share about 800 square feet with Geoff and our two dogs, and honestly…it doesn’t feel big enough. But how much of that can be attributed to square footage, and how much of it is actually just poor layout design? How much of that too-small feeling can I attribute to my own cultural values?
 
Do you feel like your home is big enough for your needs right now? Reply and let me know! 
Until next time,
🧡 Dominique

🤓 On My Mind
A couple of reading recommendations to keep the wheels turning. 
  • The guest room: a luxury that feels pretty far out of reach. (Architectural Digest)
  • A brief history of the American starter home, plus an explanation of why they don’t seem to exist anymore. (The New York Times)
  • Come fall, I crave a routine reset. I’m loving these tips for adjusting my work routine, especially since I have a lot of autonomy over my time right now (I have a love-hate relationship with this!).
  • This is a pretty fun visualization tool that shows median home sizes across U.S. cities. 

✨ Design Dreams
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Images: Meta Coleman
There’s been an explosion of traditional-with-a-twist designs on my Instagram feed lately! I imagine this is sort of the next phase of cottagecore. I’m loving the bold prints and brighter colors and cozy textures. 
 
While I’m not quite ready to add a frilly fabric canopy to our bedroom, I have started to think about ways I can incorporate more fun into our home (I’ve wanted to paint our bookcases for a while now – perhaps the time is nigh). 
 
Basically, I'm drooling over Meta Coleman's entire feed: 
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