Hi friends,
 
Yesterday, I had the house to myself all day to work on my goals program after finishing a beautiful training session with (Arab Women Today) at 1 pm.
 
I usually prefer to work on my training programs in a cafe because this previously proved its success. However, the kids were staying at my parents’ house this time, so I chose to stay home to work until the late evening hours.
 
It was funny to notice the suddenly-urgent matters I wanted to accomplish as I sat down to work:
  • Order the matching family Christmas PJs as per the annual ritual.
  • Create a quick podcast episode.
  • Check my podcast statistics (which I did because it took a second, and they were awesome).
  • Fold laundry the minute it gets ready.
  • Renew my Zoom Pro subscription.
  • Log my weekend expenses.
  • Check laptop deals to replace my windows eight laptop.
 
Don’t get me wrong, all of these are tasks I need to get done.
Strangely, their urgency spiked as I was about to start working on a creative task that required time, effort and focus.
 
Does this happen to you, too?
 
Just when you are about to start working on your project, do you feel the need to organize your desk? Although you don’t particularly enjoy this task, it suddenly sounded attractive to you! Because the project is uncomfortable, and you don’t know all the steps, but you know how to organize your desk.
 
What you feel is natural when working on a creative endeavor. Steven Pressfield calls it resistance. 
 
Notice it.
 
If you act on it, it will lead to procrastination. Procrastination is the “voluntary delay of an intended action” while knowing it will make you feel worse.
 
What to do?
 
Like me, turn them into a story to share with your readers 😄 and do the following:
 
  1. Decide the first step you need to do in your project.
  2. Set a timer to work that step or the first few, with a promise of a nice break after.
  3. Write the list of distractions as they come up in an open text file on your computer or a piece of paper. This way, you acknowledge their existence, and your mind will quiet down.
  4. Done. Time for a break. You deserve it.

 
Hey email skimmer ;)
 
P.S. 📣 The seats in my (Set and Achieve your 2023 Goals workshop) are filling up with the most amazing people. Our first live session is next Sunday and you can be there with us! Registration closes on Friday, the 25th of November. Just add your information in the link to receive the details and payment options (CliQ in Jordan is the easiest and Bank Transfer/ Western Union/PayPal for friends outside Jordan).
 
P.P.S. 📣 If you don’t plan to join us this time, I will miss you 😔. But, I will be counting on your unfailing support to share this workshop with friends interested in living purposefully like you. I’d appreciate that a lot. 
 
 
Here is your weekly dose of The Sunday Spark ⚡️ a newsletter listing 5 inspiring things I thought were worth starting your week with: 
 
 
1. 📝 Try writing one sentence per line to improve your writing as per Derek Sivers's advice (My favorite part is:  It helps you see first and last words. First words punch. Last words linger.).
 

 
2. 📧 I am enjoying the series of email lessons I am receiving as part of The 21st Century Creative Foundation Course, a free 26-part creative career guide delivered to my inbox by Mark McGuinness based on his 21+ years of experience in coaching and training creatives
 

 
3. 💡(Arabic article) Lina Ejailat has done an excellent job interviewing the Jordanian scientist Samer Hattar about the impact of keeping daylight saving time around the year on our health. I sent this article to mum to beg her to turn down the lights at night so she would fall sleepy earlier. Another great piece of advice in the article: step out in the sun as soon as you wake up.
 

 
 
 

 
5. 💬 Wise words from Rohan Rajiv that echoes the above post and  Eisenhower's famous quote (Plans are nothing; planning is everything):
 
“The habit of planning matters a lot more than the plan on most days. In time, we do learn to build great plans.
But that only happens when we commit to planning consistently.
Mastery follows learning. And learning follows doing and reflecting."
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