Dear First name / friend
I'm very good at being negative. Unless I'm reminded not to, I will focus on all the things that are not going well and somehow, miraculously, forget the myriad other things that are actually going very well.
This, of course, is a natural human trait that once aided our survival: why look up to notice the beauty of a cloudless blue sky on a summer's day when there's predators lurking at your feet?
I suppose that's why the practice of gratitude is helpful, because it forces us to look at the good things when perhaps we're not in the habit of doing so.
I'm not going to break the internet with my novel approach to advise you to focus on the good stuff - (although I do believe the best advice is often the most obvious and most simple) - but I think it's worth a moment of our time.
I'm not going to bore you with the details, but suffice to say 2023 so far has handed me a rather tumultuous and chaotic card. Plans have repeatedly been thwarted and upended (Saturn return, anyone?). My brain greedily wants to tell you all the things that haven't gone right; making myself focus on the positives feels like forcing a five year-old to eat vegetables.
Mindful moment: This is your reminder to focus on all the things that are going well in your life right now. That's it. I want nothing more from you. I just want you to notice where you're doing a great job. The path of least resistance is negative thinking, so we have to herd our thoughts like reluctant sheep into their positive pen- but know that once they're there, they'll love it.