“Most people aren’t communicating but merely exchanging facts” said
Damon Dominique in one of
his recent YouTube videos and it stuck with me, because it’s true. Just because you’re talking, or should we say spewing words, doesn’t mean you’re connecting.
But with the average person having
over 6,000 thoughts per day, it can feel like many are itching to escape. And even when they’re not, it feels like they need out regardless because keeping them to ourselves isn’t good enough. At least that’s how I feel as an introvert navigating this world in which quietness, especially in the context of business, is often equated with insignificance.
Perhaps it's the internalised pressure, fuelled by the constant urging from marketing gurus and influential media powerhouses alike to establish
thought-leadership, that drives the proliferation of "hot takes" on the internet—though, in reality, they often merely amount to lukewarm takes.
It’s no wonder that most reflections we see are more surface-level and performative than truly critical.