Youâre jumping in the car to head to a meeting. Youâre running 7 minutes late because the dog stole a flip-flop and you had to chase her down before she created her own medical emergency. đ¤Śđźââď¸
And you feel like your outfit is âŚmeh.
That meh feeling sits in the back of your brain and just sort ofâŚbubbles.
When you get to the meeting,
- you apologize for running late,
- and you apologize for the way that you look,
- and you make a joke about pulling your outfit off of your closet floor after doing the sniff test đł
Because #BusyLife
Sigh.
But really? Youâre making the joke because you feel self-conscious about your outfit.
So you deflect with humor.
Itâs a solid social strategy, the âmake a joke to deflectâ strategy.
But arenât you ready for a better way?
What youâre experiencing is not #BusyLife
What youâre experiencing is a style rut.
There 3 are easy steps you can take this weekend to begin to baby-step out of that rut and avoid that self-conscious meh feeling that weighs on your brain and your energy.