LIFE TALK
I am not a hands-off person. There have been a lot of times when I wish I were, because having my fingers in every pie leads to, well, to sticky fingers, among other things.
For a long time, I felt like I had to do everything myself. And that's a lonely place to be. It feels like the rest of the world has some support system and we're on the outside looking in.
Recently, I've seen things differently. I get to decide what happens when, and how, and why. I can change things on a dime. I can do as much or as little as I want.
Everything in life has two sides, and if we focus on the negative, we'll always feel like others have something we never got. But when we look at the very same situation through a different lens, we can often see that we got exactly what it was that we needed.
We get to have whatever we want, we just need to know what we want--and why. And if our fingers get overly sticky? We can always wash them :)
xo!
Diane
