This morning, with her, having coffee.
- Johnny Cash (when asked his idea of paradise)
I personally love this response. It's romantic and simple, but what if you don't have a significant other right now?
OR you have a significant other, but they went away for the weekend for a trip with friends?
Does that mean paradise is now out of reach?
ro·mance
/rōˈmans,ˈrōˌmans/
noun
- a feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love.
- a quality or feeling of mystery, excitement, and remoteness from everyday life.
Hmm.. I don't see anything there about a partner...
Do you realize that the longest relationship you'll ever have is the one you have with yourself?
I can feel you rolling your eyes from here...
... Or maybe that's just what I would have done if I were you a few years ago. Self-love is a tricky construct. It means something different to everyone.
For me, self-love blossomed in the form of no longer waiting for someone outside of myself to bring romance into my life.
That's how the tradition of romanticize your morning was born.
To romanticize your morning is to have a simple ritual that you practice mindfully every morning. Having a conscious routine creates alignment, control, and helps set the tone for your day. Romanticizing it makes it charming.
You can romanticize your morning by paying attention to detail, practicing presence by smelling your hot beverage before drinking it, really tasting it, playing music in the background, the list goes on...The way you start your day greatly determines how your day goes.
The way you love yourself sets the standard for how others love you.
And the funny thing is that when you generate romance from within, you start finding it all around you in mysterious ways...
Wishing you the best day ever.