Hi friends,
In the midst of all that’s happening, the helplessness we are bound to feel from the comfort of our warm homes, full fridges, and safe streets as we are seeing new levels of horror that our brothers and sisters are facing in beloved Palestine, I am sending you this note wishing you would keep watching, sharing and demanding an end to this madness. All words feel empty, but we can not give up saying them over and over. We should never give up, not in our prayers or our actions.
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This week, I tried something new. I encouraged my kids to do all our homework for the upcoming week on Thursday instead of our usual Friday routine so we could do more family activities on Friday. Three things inspired this experiment:
- The warm weekend weather, which is a significant boost to morale for everyone.
- A friend mentioned the idea to me months ago.
- Spark #2, check it out.
This experiment took effort since I usually lazily wind down on Thursday evenings. To be able to do it, I needed to check all school emails and prepare homework lists as usual, but most importantly, I needed to prime kids for it.
On the way to school that Thursday morning, I got their buy-in by having them imagine a carefree Friday and promising something they love after we finish: a movie night. We watched Orion and the Dark, which they were excited to watch for a while. Of course, my younger son was about to bail out on the whole idea and wanted to play instead that evening, but then he came around. As a result of this effort, we spent a fruitful Thursday evening that ended with connection time over the movie and a full and pleasant Family Friday.
Homework on Thursday evening was an experiment I would love to repeat, especially in non-exam weeks. It definitely enhanced the weekend for my family.
What is something that you can try to improve your weekends?