We are really bad at self-perception. Maybe it's just me, but I have a sneaky suspicion this is true for most people.
Two examples of this in action came up this month:
First — it's easy to assume that what comes second nature to you will also come second nature to others.
I've been using Toggl to track my time forEVER, but every time I share a screenshot on my IG stories, I get a dozen DMs asking me what I use!
So here's the answer: it's
Toggl. I use the Chrome extension and the free plan, and it is
soooooo worth the extra half second to start that timer.
Without it, I would have genuinely no clue what I even did in February. I blinked and now it's March.
The second example of not having great self-perception is also thanks to Instagram.
I cut my hair a few weeks ago and recorded a few chaotic stories with my natural curly/air-dried hair. More than anything, the overwhelming response to those stories wasn't the way I ripped open my pharmacy bag or my squirrel-like distraction, but my hair.
I'm not a humble person. I will accept when I'm having a good hair day. That day was not a good hair day by my usual standards.
But those responses made me realize maybe my standards aren't all that.
So here's what YOU can learn from this — your perception isn't everything. What you think things should be are probably good enough for others. What you think is given can actually be life-changing for someone else.
Remind me to tell you in a future email why I'm calling myself the patron saint of technology micro-tips…