Having just completed my first round of career coaching (very successful, would recommend), I’ve realised I need to make room in my life and tbr pile for self-development. 

 

Not in a Men-Are-From-Mars-Women-Are-From-Venus way, but definitely in a keep-expanding-your-mind-and-pushing-your-thinking way. I used to think of self-development as a box I needed to tick every six months (or not at all) but post-career coaching I see it as an ‘always on’ investment.

 

 

Here’s three books I’ve read recently that have helped me reframe my thinking and approach to life/work a little differently:

Harris employs the Acceptance and Commitment Training method which leans on mindfulness techniques to break habits that are holding you back from getting what you want. I found it extremely helpful as I have been (and still am!) in the habit of talking myself out of things I want for fear of failure etc.

 

You probably know Day from her podcast, How to Fail, from which this book gets its name. The podcast is certainly a must-listen, but what I loved about this book is how it distilled some of Day’s personal experiences and the lessons she’s learned from her guests into a helpful guide to failing and being ok with it.

 

I’ve only just started this and like Harris’s book, this came recommended to me by my career coach, Holly Garber. It tackles the idea of being an introvert in the context of our society, which is set up to play by “extrovert’s rules”. Introvert or ambivert, it’s worth a read.

One of my favourite places on The Internet for inspiration and writing. It's touted as “an independent print magazine exploring society through sweets”, and I kinda think that's all you need to know. 

 

I'm absolutely obsessed with the work of Hal Haines; his pieces make me want to re-tile my kitchen and change all the lighting in my home. His work is so colourful and happy, it's hard not to fall in love. 

I love handmade jewellery, especially the kind that looks like lollies and that you can tell has had so much love and care poured into it. That's why I can't get enough of Project Bon's pieces. Think: Vintages beads, beautiful colours and so much clever detail.