So how can we graciously get a grip on our screen time? (And by “screen time” I mean time spent scrolling, shopping, skim-reading, not the ways we use our phone for work or health.) You asked for Gracious Summertime Strategies with how to handle your screen time as the #1 vote-getter, so what healthy strategies can we use to interact with our devices? Because…
We want to handle our phones well because
we know we are meant for more.
C.S. Lewis said we prefer mud pies to a holiday at the sea, and social media scrolling is our modern-day mud pie. The Lord offers us a holiday of oceanic connection, belonging, love, and service. We are women who don't want to settle. Having said that, there's no need to shame ourselves for our mud-pie making, AND there's also no sense in staying there.
Here are five big-picture ways to get a grip on your screen time:
1. Name beliefs or attitudes you might hold abound your phone use. For example, you might say that you believe you're on your phone “too much” or that a better mom would engage more with her kids and less with her phone. Maybe you'd say all your screen time is valid and there are no issues. Whatever you believe about your phone and how you use it, write that down.
2. Get your GPS. How much time do you truly spend on your phone (or the apps that cause you the most shame or guilt)? You might be surprised by how much or how little time you spend, because we humans aren't always the best at gauging time (I often think I've spent 5 minutes on Insta, when it's been 20, while also believing it will take me 14 hours to clean out my closet when it actually takes only 90 minutes.) Use your Screen Time app to help you figure out actual time vs. perceived time.
3. Paint a picture of where you want to go. At the end of the day, how would you have liked to…