Conflict is necessary for a good story. But in real life, we avoid it entirely or solve it as quickly as possible. Solving conflict goes one of two ways:
- One side wins
- Both sides compromise
In the first scenario, one person feels good. In the second, no one does.
Relieved, maybe. But not good.
And good, original stories are what we’re aiming for here.
Solving conflict by taking sides or compromising bypasses the story circuitry in your brain, denying you the opportunity to create new good stories. Stories that will surprise and satisfy the storythinker. Stories that will broaden the possibilities in your mind. Stories that help you grow.