FREEDOM, INDEPENDENCE AND INDIVIDUALISM What's The Difference? |
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First name / My friend, In today's world, terms like freedom, independence, and individualism are often used interchangeably. However, they represent distinct concepts with unique implications for our lives and relationships. Let's explore how true freedom and independence differ from individualism. - True freedom is the ability to make choices and pursue actions that align with your values, desires, and authentic self. It is empowering and fosters a sense of mutual respect and understanding for others.
- True independence is the ability to rely on yourself, to be self-sufficient and self-supporting, while maintaining healthy interdependence with others. There's a confidence and a maturity in it that allows you to navigate life's challenges. You can recognize your own autonomy AND you can recognize the importance of healthy interdependence. The delicious fruit on the other side of this is resilience, healthy relationships, and a more satisfying and balanced life where personal independence and social connections coexist harmoniously.
- Individualism is sometimes interchangeable with autonomy. If someone is not aware, attuned or connected to the authentic self, individualism out of balance will show up not in the kindest of ways and likely at the expense of others. It can lead to prioritizing personal desires (this includes addictions, compulsive behaviors and/or ambitions) above relationships. It often downplays the importance of interdependence and can foster a competitive mindset. The pitfall in all this is isolation and a lack of meaningful connections. This can affect the well-being of the individual and others as a whole. It is the opposite of an us or we mindset and can and does ruin relationships.
Freedom and independence are essential aspects of a fulfilling life. Embracing these principles helps us grow as individuals and contributes to the strength of our relationships. However, it’s crucial to balance our need for personal freedom with our commitment to our partners. By finding this balance, we can avoid the pitfalls of excessive individualism and create a dynamic that supports both individual growth and relationship harmony. I would love to hear your thoughts on this…feel free to email me back.
I'm curious what comes up for you when you read this. |
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DANI'S SCHEDULE NEXT WEEK |
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I will be out of the office all next week and not seeing clients. I'll be visiting my family in California. Daughter and I fly out Monday night. Prayers for travel safety are appreciated. I'll be back to seeing clients the week of July 22nd. |
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