And now, some writing advice . . .
When a budding writer asks for advice, I always tell them to turn and run the other way. But if I can't scare them off, I tell them they have to find their way to flow, that there are few greater joys in the world than finding and experiencing it, ESPECIALLY because it is so elusive (not unlike my wife when I first met her). Then I talk about the challenge of first drafts.
First drafts are the hard part for me. I adore editing, the shifting around of scenes, the polishing of sentences, the painting of additional details, the deleting of thousands of unnecessary words, but stabbing out a first draft... that shit is for the birds. If you want to meet face-to-face with your fears, there is no better battleground than the empty page.
And I'm in it now. Today, I'll tell you I'm the worst writer in history, tomorrow I'll threaten to find a new career, and then maybe the next day after that I'll hit my stride and squeeze my wife and tell her I'm doing exactly what I'm supposed to be doing. Drafting can and will elicit a rabid and bi-polar seesaw of emotions.
As I pound away at this first draft with Otis (my fifteenth first draft of my career), I constantly remind myself of the two sharpest blades in my toolbox to combat against the inevitable 1st-draft obstacles.
1) Shannon Hale once said: "When writing a first draft, I have to remind myself constantly that I'm only shoveling sand into a box so later I can build castles." That quote has saved me a thousand times from hurling myself onto my pen.
2) In her 1994 craft book,
Bird by Bird, Anne Lamott blew down the doors for writers everywhere with a chapter entitled “Shitty First Drafts.” She gave us permission to write shitty first drafts. Because there is no other kind. THERE IS NO OTHER KIND. No one spits out literary beauty on the first go. A first draft is a literary vomit fest and nothing more. The magic happens in the rewrites.
Read her words here.
Hope that helps someone out there today.