The Brothers of the Desert Board want to wish you all a wonderful holiday season. We are coming to the close of another successful year in building and supporting our community thanks to your support.
In this season of giving, we hope that you can extend your generosity to friends, family, and communities that matter most to you. We want to share with you the impact we have made on our community here in the Coachella Valley by sharing this brief 3-minute video that features a number of our community leaders and Brothers of the Desert members.
If you would like to continue to support us in our efforts, to empower, support the larger Black and LGBTQ+ communities through our various community initiatives please donate here:
Today, on World AIDS Day, we pause to remember and honor the lives lost to HIV/AIDS, reflect on the progress we've made, and acknowledge the work still ahead. This day serves as a reminder of the strength, resilience, and courage within our community. It’s also an opportunity to show love and support to those living with HIV, while continuing to raise awareness and fight for an end to the stigma that still surrounds the virus.
Together, we stand in solidarity, in remembrance, and in hope for a world where everyone can live free from fear and discrimination. Let’s keep pushing for progress, for education, and for a future where no one has to face this battle alone.
Tuesday, December 10, 2024
5:30 PM- 7:00 PM
Building upon the tradition of barbershops in Black communities, the discussion group is designed to encourage open and honest conversation. The meetings will be inclusive, welcoming the full spectrum of Black men each month: gay, bisexual, transgender, nonbinary, and straight allies. The wellness topics will be equally diverse, ranging from dating and intimacy to aging with HIV, how we get and offer support, and exploring our identities as Black men.
To RSVP, email Info@Barbershop@LKAPS.org
BROTHERS OF THE DESERT 6TH ANNUAL WELLNESS SUMMIT,
THE POWER OF AUTHENTICITY
Brothers of the Desert is conducting our 6th Annual Wellness Summit focusing on Black gay men and our allies in the Coachella Valley and beyond in-person on Saturday, March 22nd, 2025, at the new Riviera Resort Hotel and Spa in Palm Springs from 8:30 AM-4:30 PM. Join us as we offer the opportunity to learn from a diverse group of health and wellness experts.
The one-day event will feature inspiring keynote presentations and innovative workshops on a range of topics, such as spirituality, relationships, mental health, aging considerations, racism, physical health, communication, healthy sex, and creative expression as a means of healing. Everyoneis welcome to attend.
We are excited to announce that we have New York Times best-selling author of All Boys Aren't Blue, George M. Johnson and nationally renowned public health expert, Dr. David Malebranche as keynote speakers and returning to host our event, film director Nathan Hale-Williams.
Space is limited, and registration is required. A donation of $25 is suggested and any amount given will be appreciated.
Nathan Hale Williams, President and CEO of iN-Hale Entertainment LLC, is a multifaceted talent—an Emmy® nominated director, writer, and producer, as well as a best-selling/award-winning author and entertainment attorney. Named a Black Enterprise Magazine Modern Man of Excellence ®, a GLAAD Media Award® winner, winner of the American Black Film Festival (“ABFF”) for Best Picture, a two-time NAACP Image Award® nominee, and the recipient of the Thurgood Marshall Prestige Award for Excellence, Nathan is a classic storyteller across multiple genres and media.
His last film, All Boys Aren’t Blue, won two Telly Awards, including one for Nathan’s “Outstanding Direction,” an inaugural Anthem Award, and “Best Narrative Feature” at the NewFest Film Festival. In 2022, Nathan was invited and selected for Mara Brock Akil/Story 27 Production’s Writer’s Colony (4-person Cohort) for “the industry’s most promising, emerging screenwriters” where he developed the screenplay for his upcoming feature film, Love Will Save the Day.
1301 North Palm Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA, 92262
Brothers of the Desert members meet monthly to discuss recent and upcoming events, share updates on the organization, celebrate our accomplishments, and have an opportunity to connect with new and existing members. This meeting we will have a special guest Dr. Kuldanek from PS Test giving us an update from the office of Dr. Ritchie.
Members & Allies Lunch
Saturday, December 14, 2024
12:30 PM-1:30 PM
Blackbook Bar and Kitchen
315 East Arenas Road Palm Springs, CA, 92262
Join us after the Members’ Meeting at Blackbook Bar and Kitchen for lunch!
Both members and allies are welcome to attend (Cash and Carry).
Make your reservation with David before Friday, December 13th, as we want to let Blackbook Bar know how many will be having lunch. DavidMaurice.Jones@gmail.com
Black LGBTQ+ Stories on Screen
by R. Ayité Okyne, Editor
The past few years have witnessed a remarkable surge in the cinematic representation of Black LGBTQ+ experiences. these films have not only entertained but also challenged societal norms, sparked important conversations, and provided much-needed visibility for the Black LGBTQ+ community. They have delved into diverse themes, from historical figures and coming-of-age stories to explorations of identity, love, and loss. By showcasing the complexities and nuances of Black LGBTQ+ lives, these films have made significant contributions to the cultural landscape, fostering empathy, understanding, and acceptance. Here are some to watch:
1. Rustin (2023)
Why Watch: This historical drama delves into the life of Bayard Rustin, a pivotal figure in the Civil Rights Movement. The film, directed by George C. Wolfe, highlights Rustin's significant contributions while also exploring his sexuality and the challenges he faced as a Black gay man.
2. The Color Purple (2023)
Why Watch: A reimagining of the beloved 1985 film, this adaptation offers a fresh perspective on the story of Celie, a Black woman who endures hardship and finds strength through love, resilience, and sisterhood. The film's portrayal of queer relationships and the complexities of identity is both poignant and powerful.
3. Anything's Possible (2022)
Why Watch: This heartwarming coming-of-age story follows Kelsa, a Black cisgender girl, and Khal, a trans boy, as they navigate high school, love, and self-discovery. The film celebrates diversity, acceptance, and the power of young love.
4. Brother (2022)
Why Watch: This British drama explores themes of family, love, and loss. The film follows two estranged brothers who reconnect and confront their past, all while navigating their own personal struggles with sexuality and identity.
5. I Don't Know Who You Are (2023)
Why Watch: This thought-provoking film centers around a young Black man who, after a traumatic event, wakes up with no memory of his past. As he attempts to piece together his life, he must also confront his sexuality and the prejudices he faces.
These films are just a few examples of the growing body of work that is amplifying Black LGBTQ+ voices and experiences. By exploring diverse themes, challenging stereotypes, and celebrating love in all its forms, these films are making a significant impact on the cinematic landscape.
Myron Lee
How long have you been in the Palm Springs area and where did you come from or have you lived previously?
I have been in Palm Springs area for three years now. Before that I lived between here and Nashville, Tennessee. I was born and raised in the tri-state area, primarily New York.
What kind of work do you do and/or how have you been involved in the community?
I am an Interior Designer. I have done In- services and talks in the community stressing the importance of keeping the interiors of our homes sustainable, and the importance of good home maintenance.
Why is BOD/Brothers of the Desert important to you?
Connecting with Brothers of the desert was important to me because, having not lived here long, I was looking for a social situation where I felt like I belonged. Where I could meet, network and establish relationships with people similar and different to myself.
What are your hobbies or non-work activities that bring you pleasure?
In my free time, I enjoy fitness, reading, movies, and doing various art projects.
What is your lifelong dream?
It is always been a dream of mine to go into the inner city schools and revamp the old-school home economics program. To teach our young people the basics of good housekeeping and preparing meals for themselves and their families.
Brothers Do Drag
A Fundraiser benefiting Brothers of the Desert
Brothers of the Desert is hosting another spectacular talent night and fundraiser Friday, December 13th at Boozehounds Palm Springs, 2080 North Palm Canyon Drive. Our "Brothers Do Drag." Come see us "Lip Sync" and entertain you all night long, please let us know you're coming by purchasing your tickets.
Brothers of the Desert is in support of assisting the Roost Lounge in Cathedral City with collecting as many "Game Boards" for children in need as possible. This 4th Annual event hosted by the Roost Lounge is in benefit of the Cathedral City Boys and Girls Club. Drop your board game off at the Roost Lounge now through Sunday, December 15th-2024
Toy Drive
Brothers of the Desert is supporting the "Roost Lounge" in Cathedral City with their annual "Toy Drive" which benefits the Cathedral City Boys and Girls Club. The Roost Lounge has hosted this amazing toy drive event for the past 4 years, that benefits the Cathedral City Boys and Girls Club. Here is your chance to make a kid "SMILE" for the holidays. The toy drive collection of an unwrapped toy is now until December 18th at the Roost Lounge Cathedral City.
Wreath Auction
Brothers of the Desert is supporting the "Roost Lounge" in Cathedral City with their annual "Wreath Auction" which benefits the Cathedral City Boys and Girls Club. The Roost Lounge has hosted this amazing and creative wreath auction event for the past 4 years, here is your chance to create a wreath and let your arts and craft side shine. The auction will be on Sunday, December 8, drop off your decorated or store-bought wreath prior to December 8th at the Roost Lounge Cathedral City. This has been the 3rd year that Brothers of the Desert has supported the cause with the "Roost Lounge," we appreciate your engagement.
Dessert Auction
Brothers of the Desert is supporting the "Roost Lounge" in Cathedral City with their annual "Dessert Auction" which benefits the Cathedral City Boys and Girls Club. The Roost Lounge has hosted this amazing and delicious sweet tooth auction and event for the past 4 years, here is your chance to create a delicious dessert. The auction will be on Sunday, December 8, drop off your dessert or store-bought dessert the day of the event Sunday, December 8th at the Roost Lounge Cathedral City.
Birthday wishes
Birthday wishes for December
December 2 - Micheal Julian
December 5 - Philip Pegues
December 6 - Tim Vincent
December 11 - Andre Carthen
December 13 - Will Dean
December 30 - Marcus Mello
Hello, Brothers!
As we step into this holiday season, I can’t help but marvel at the magic of our community here in the Coachella Valley. From the warm sun that shines brighter than most Christmas tree lights (yes, here's to 70-degree Decembers), to the incredible tapestry of culture, resilience, and joy that defines our community, there’s so much to celebrate—and to be grateful for.
Gratitude is where my heart lingers this season. I’m thankful for the beauty of this desert oasis, the laughter we’ve shared in our gatherings, the soul-stirring art and music that moves us, and the steady, uplifting presence of each of you. There’s something truly special about knowing you’re part of a family that gets it—a family that supports, celebrates, and loves you just as you are.
The holidays, for me, are about belonging. And I hope you feel it too: the profound sense that you belong here. Whether it’s at a potluck dinner with collard greens that could make your grandma jealous, a holiday celebration reminding us of the rich traditions of our heritage, or just a quiet conversation under the desert stars, we are a brotherhood.
And let’s not forget about optimism—it’s been our superpower all along. As the year winds down, I’m choosing to embrace the possibilities of the year ahead. Let’s imagine it together: a community that grows stronger, a world that opens wider, and lives that feel fuller. Let’s keep building, dreaming, and showing the world what it means to thrive.
So this holiday season, whether you’re trimming a palm tree with ornaments, lighting a kinara for Kwanzaa, or trying to explain to relatives why we’re still in flip-flops, remember this: You’re surrounded by love, history, and possibility. And no matter what challenges come our way, we’ll meet them as we always do—with grace, grit, and a good dose of humor.
Here’s to a joyful holiday season and an extraordinary new year! And please, save me some sweet potato pie—I’m serious.
With love, laughter, and gratitude, Ayité
Editor
Ayite
333 East Sunrise way PO Box #1314 Palm Springs, Ca 92262, United States
