Celebrating Black History Month: Honoring Our Past, Inspiring Our Future
Board of Directors
Dear Brothers,
As we enter Black History Month, we are reminded of the extraordinary legacy of resilience, innovation, and excellence that defines our shared heritage. This month is more than a commemoration of history—it is a celebration of the enduring spirit of our ancestors and a call to action for us to continue their work in shaping a brighter future.
Black History Month gives us the opportunity to honor the pioneers who paved the way for justice, equality, and freedom. From trailblazers like Harriet Tubman and Frederick Douglass to modern icons like James Baldwin, Maya Angelou, and Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., we stand on the shoulders of giants who dared to dream of a world where Black lives are celebrated and cherished.
As members of Brothers of the Desert, we are uniquely positioned to carry this legacy forward. Our mission to empower Black men and our community reflects the very principles our ancestors fought for: unity, empowerment, and upliftment.
This month, let us reflect on how we can honor their sacrifices in our daily lives. Whether it’s mentoring a young brother, volunteering in our community, or simply taking a moment to learn more about the contributions of Black individuals in history, every action we take strengthens the foundation they built.
Let us also remember that Black history is being made every day. Each of us contributes to this ongoing narrative with our courage, creativity, and commitment to excellence. Together, we are the architects of tomorrow’s legacy.
Brothers, as we celebrate this month, let us do so with pride, purpose, and passion. Let’s support one another, amplify our voices, and continue to foster a community that reflects the beauty and strength of our shared heritage.
In solidarity and celebration,
The Board of Directors
In This Edition
Leadership message
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BoD Launches New Scholarship Fund
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6th Annual Wellness Summit: The Power of Authenticity
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Roots and Rhythm: Exploring the Influence of Black Music on Global Culture
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Bingo Fundraiser +
Are You Walking With Us?
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Barbershop
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Monthly Meeting
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Members and Allies Brunch
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From the Editor: Finding Joy In The Journey
BROTHERS OF THE DESERT LAUNCHES NEW SCHOLARSHIP FUND
Brothers of the Desert has contributed over $20,000 in scholarships to various organizations within the Coachella Valley. In 2023, it was collectively decided to launch our own scholarship program specifically designed to address the unique challenges faced by young men in our community.
We are excited to announce the initiation of our own The Brothers of the Desert Scholarship for 2025. It will be awarded to a student who has completed their secondary education in the Inland Empire, or in the process of completing a two-year college program or has completed two years of college, who identifies as male, Black (African American or of African descent), and Gay (Same Gender Loving, queer, bisexual) and has been accepted into a four-year college or university program in the United States. All applicants must be a resident of the Inland Empire at time of application.
The scholarship funds can be allocated toward educational expenses, excluding housing. Eligible majors include any field of study in a four or six-year program.
Candidates are required to submit an essay detailing their personal journey, including any affiliations with LGBTQ+ and Black focused organizations and the challenges they have faced or continue to face that may pose obstacles to their degree completion.
We plan to connect with the recipients to offer a support network for academic and personal assistance. We believe this scholarship is unprecedented in our region and we hope creates a step towards making systemic changes and increase the statistics of degree completion for Black men in the US.
BROTHERS OF THE DESERT 6TH ANNUAL WELLNESS SUMMIT,
THE POWER OF AUTHENTICITY
You are invited to join Brothers of the Desert members and allies for a full day of real talk, real bonding, and real growth on Saturday March 22, 2025, from 9AM-4:00PM during our 6th annual Wellness Summit at Riviera Palm Springs.
The theme of this year's event is "The Power of Authenticity," with health, cultural, spiritual, and community leaders presenting relevant and provocative presentations and workshops on a variety of topics supporting the health and wellness of Black gay men and our allies. Topics range from improving communication and relationships, learning from our history, music as healing, creating a healthy lifestyle, being better social advocates and so much more!
Explore vendors' booths, enjoy lunch with the Brothers, and connect with our community. Registration is required, suggested donation is $25 and any amount received is appreciated.
Keynote presenters include New York Times best-selling author of All Boys Aren't Blue, George M. Johnson, nationally renowned public health expert, Dr. David Malebranche and religious trailblazer, Bishop OC Allen, and returning to host our event, film director Nathan Hale-Williams.
Workshop presenters will includePresident of the Black Nurses Association, Dr. Sheldon Fields, author and innovator, Dante King, physician and health expert, Leo Moore, MD, author and organizational development trainer, Lauren Nile, thought leader and LGBTQ+ advocate, Dr. Imani Woody, facilitator, L Trey Wilson, community leaders and Brothers of the Desert members, Will Dean, Anye Elite, and Lorenzo Taylor and national public health experts, JaDawn Wright-Morgan, Tai Few and Aunsha Everett-Hall.
More About Our Wellness Summit Workshop Presenters:
The summit will feature 12 different workshops that participants can choose to experience at three different times throughout the day. Here is an introduction to six of our 2025 summit workshop presenters.
To see these presenters and attend the summit register here:
Roots and Rhythm: Exploring the Influence of Black Music on Global Culture
by R. Ayité Okyne, Editor
When you think about the soundtrack of your life, odds are a Black artist or music genre is somewhere in the mix. Whether it’s the smooth sounds of jazz, the soulful sway of R&B, or the head-nodding beats of hip-hop, Black music isn’t just a genre—it’s the blueprint.
Black music is woven into the fabric of global culture, and its influence is so vast it’s almost unfair. You could be listening to K-pop, country, or even EDM, and if you trace the rhythm back far enough, you’ll find its roots planted firmly in Black musical traditions. Let’s take a joyful journey through some of the most iconic genres and their impact on the world.
Jazz: The Original Trailblazer
Jazz is like that cool uncle at the family barbecue—always smooth, always improvising, and somehow making everything better. Born in the early 20th century in New Orleans, jazz combined African rhythms, blues, and ragtime to create something entirely new. Legends like Louis Armstrong, Duke Ellington, and Ella Fitzgerald didn’t just play music; they created art that transcended boundaries.
Fast forward a century, and jazz is still inspiring musicians worldwide. From Tokyo jazz clubs to European concert halls, its influence is undeniable. Even pop stars like Lady Gaga have dabbled in jazz because, let’s face it, everyone wants a piece of that cool uncle energy.
R&B: The Soundtrack of Love
R&B (rhythm and blues) gave the world the ultimate playlist for love, heartbreak, and everything in between. It’s the genre that made us all believe in the power of a slow jam. Icons like Aretha Franklin, Stevie Wonder, and Whitney Houston didn’t just sing—they sang. Their voices carried emotion so pure it could make a grown person cry in the club (no judgment).
Today, R&B continues to dominate charts and playlists. Artists like Beyoncé, Usher, and SZA are proof that the genre evolves but never loses its essence. And let’s be real—what’s a wedding reception without at least one R&B slow dance?
Hip-Hop: The Global Megaphone
When hip-hop emerged in the Bronx in the 1970s, no one could have predicted it would become a global phenomenon. What started with DJ Kool Herc spinning records at block parties turned into a cultural movement that includes music, dance, fashion, and even politics.
Hip-hop is the genre that gave us Tupac’s poetry, Missy Elliott’s creativity, and Jay-Z’s business acumen. It’s also the genre that taught the world how to really party. (Shoutout to every house party that’s ever popped off to a Notorious B.I.G. track.)
Today, hip-hop is everywhere—from the streets of Lagos to the clubs of Berlin. It’s proof that a good beat and a powerful message know no borders.
The Ripple Effect
The beauty of Black music is its ability to inspire and adapt. Gospel gave birth to soul. Blues laid the groundwork for rock and roll. Even modern pop owes a debt to Black artists and producers. And let’s not forget the dance moves—without Black music, would the world even know how to twerk? (The answer is no. Definitely no.)
From influencing global fashion trends to sparking social movements, Black music has shaped how we see and celebrate the world. It’s a reminder that rhythm and resilience go hand in hand.
Celebrate the Legacy
So, the next time you’re vibing to a playlist, take a moment to appreciate the roots behind the rhythm. Black music isn’t just a part of global culture—it is global culture. And if you ever need proof, just turn on the radio, open Spotify, or crash a dance floor near you.
Because as long as there’s a beat, Black music will keep the world moving. And let’s be honest—what’s life without a little rhythm?
GED MAGAZINE Presents Ethyl’s Place Bingo at The Roost Lounge! Starring the Bingo Queen Ethylina Canne, this is a drag Bingo experience unlike any other!
Join in the fun Sunday, February 9th for CHARITY BINGO benefitting BROTHERS OF THE DESERT + THE ROOST FOUNDATION SCHOLARSHIP FUND.
Doors open at 11am and the games begin at 11:30am SHARP! PRIZES FOR GAMES come from H.I.M-istry NATURALS! Thank you to our generous prize sponsors, we’re beyond grateful for your contributions!
Brothers of the Desert is a non-profit organization providing a growing support network for Black gay men and allies in the Coachella Valley. Their mission is to nurture and support Black gay men and allies through philanthropy, volunteerism, mentorship, education, advocacy, and social networking. Their purpose is to change the dynamics that produce isolation, disconnection, and inequities among Black gay men.
Are You Walking With Us?
38th Annual City of Palm Springs Black History Month Parade and Town Fair
Saturday, February 22, 2025,
11:00 AM-1:00 PM
Palm Canyon Drive,
Palm Springs, CA, 92264
Brothers of the Desert Board and Members celebrate Black History Month!
The Palm Springs Black History Committee, the City of Palm Springs, and the James O. Jessie Desert Highland Unity Center host the "38th Annual City of Palm Springs Black History Month Parade and Town Fair."
The Parade starts at 11:00 AM on Saturday, February 22, 2025, on Palm Canyon Drive in Downtown Palm Springs.
Immediately following the Parade, the Town Fair is held at the New Downtown Park in Palm Springs across the street from the Palm Springs Art Museum.
Tuesday, February 11, 2025, 5:30 PM-6:30 PM
Building upon the tradition of barbershops in Black communities, the discussion group is designed to encourage open and honest conversation. The meetings will be inclusive, welcoming the full spectrum of Black men each month: gay, bisexual, transgender, nonbinary, and straight allies. The wellness topics will be equally diverse, ranging from dating and intimacy to aging with HIV, how we get and offer support, and exploring our identities as Black men.
Brothers of the Desert members meet monthly to discuss recent and upcoming events, share updates on the organization, celebrate our accomplishments, and have an opportunity to connect with new and existing members.
Members & Allies Lunch
Saturday, February 8, 2025, 12:30 PM-1:30 PM
Billy Reeds 1800 North Palm Canyon,
Palm Springs, CA, 92262
Join us after the Members’ Meeting at Billy Reeds for lunch! Both members and allies are welcome to attend (Cash and Carry).
Make your reservation with David before Friday, February 7th, as we want to let the restaurant know how many will be having lunch. DavidMaurice.Jones@gmail.com
I don’t know about you, but sometimes I get so focused on where I’m trying to go that I forget to enjoy where I am. It’s like when you’re on a road trip, staring at the GPS, counting down the miles, and completely missing the beautiful scenery outside the window. (Or worse—missing the gas station and ending up stranded on the side of the road. But that’s another story.)
We live in a world that’s obsessed with big wins. Promotions, new relationships, weight loss transformations—you name it. But what about the little victories? The ones that don’t make the highlight reel but still deserve some love?
Like finally getting through your inbox without feeling like you fought a digital war. Or remembering to drink water before your third cup of coffee. Or resisting the urge to clap back at that one person who always tests your patience. These moments matter.
Progress, Not Perfection
Here’s the thing: Growth isn’t always flashy. It’s often slow, messy, and filled with detours. But every step forward—no matter how small—is still progress.
Think about when you started something new. Maybe it was a workout routine, a meditation practice, or just trying to be more present in your daily life. At first, it probably felt awkward. Maybe you doubted yourself. But look at you now—still showing up, still trying, still moving forward. That’s something to celebrate.
The Power of Small Wins
There’s science behind this, too. (Yes, I did my research!) When we acknowledge small achievements, our brains release dopamine, the “feel-good” chemical. And that little boost of motivation? It keeps us going. So, the more we celebrate the small stuff, the more likely we are to stay on track.
So why not make it a habit? Take a moment each day to acknowledge something you did well. Maybe you finally tackled that task you’ve been avoiding. Maybe you reached out to a friend just to check in. Maybe you took five minutes to breathe before diving into the chaos of the day.
Whatever it is—celebrate it.
Joy is in the Journey
Life isn’t just about the big milestones. It’s about the laughter in between, the lessons we learn, and the moments that make us pause and say, “Wow, I’m really doing this.”
So, let’s stop waiting for some grand finish line to feel good about where we are. Let’s find joy in the small steps, the detours, and even the occasional wrong turns. Because when we learn to appreciate the journey, we realize—we’ve already won.
And if all else fails, just remember: Even a slow clap is still applause. Keep going, my friends. You’re doing better than you think.
Ayité
333 East Sunrise way PO Box #1314 Palm Springs, Ca 92262, United States
