Hi friends,
Happy Eid! Wishing you great times enjoying your 3 meals and morning coffee again and going outdoors with your family anytime you want!
Are you ready?
Are you excited?
It’s happening in less than a week!
I’m talking about A Fresh Start!
Starting next Sunday, we have 9 weeks to make remarkable progress in our goals.
Why 9? Because by the end of the 9th, the Adha Eid holiday starts and, and with it, summer vacation for kids.
It’s time to stick to a workout routine.
It’s time to walk every day.
It’s time to do your weekly reviews.
It’s time to wake up early.
It’s time to read.
It’s time to put your phone away while with your kids.
It’s time to plan your meals.
It’s time to track your expenses.
Why do fresh starts work?
Because if we’re a book, new beginnings, like the first workday after Eid, are distinct chapters in our lives. We are new people in every chapter, and the old version of us from the previous chapter is a distant memory. What that self couldn’t do, we can!
In her book How to Change, the author Katy Milkman shared her studies that people tend to sign up for classes or set goals not only in the new year but also in the new work week, on their birthday, or after culturally meaningful dates such as the beginning of Spring because they feel more hopeful about the new season. So yes! We can have this feeling every new week (That’s why I love weekly reviews)! But sometimes, like next week, we all get to have a larger fresh start.
How do you make the best of a fresh start?
- Spend time over the weekend checking what routines worked before Ramadan started to re-create them.
- Design your new routines:
- What is your nonnegotiable morning routine?
- What’s your nonnegotiable evening routine?
- What’s your nonnegotiable workday startup routine?
- What about the workday-end routine?
- Write them on Post-it notes and stick them on places you see daily. For example your work routine on your computer screen, your morning and evening routine evening and morning on your bedroom mirror or by the coffee machine,
- Experiment before you Commit: Plan to experiment for one week and adjust the following week. There are ideal routines and realistic routines; sometimes, we need a few trials to adjust. Another way to say it is what author Jon Acuff says: Date your goals for a while before you marry them!