Hey boo,

 

If no one’s told you lately: it’s okay not to have all the answers.

 

 

We live in a world that celebrates expertise. Where knowing the right strategy, the perfect timing, the “proven” method is often seen as the only path to success. 

 

But lately, I’ve been thinking about how many of the biggest breakthroughs in life — in business, in purpose, in wellness — don’t come from people who "knew what they were doing."

 

 

There’s a quiet kind of power in not knowing. When you don’t have a playbook, you create your own. When you don’t follow “the rules,” you give yourself permission to experiment. To try, to pivot, to grow. And that kind of movement? 

 

 

I think about the earlier version of me — the one who left a corporate career that looked great on paper but felt misaligned in my spirit. The one who had a vision for something different, even if I couldn’t quite articulate it yet.

 

I trusted the nudge. I followed what felt honest and true, even when it was scary. And because I didn’t know all the “right” ways to build a brand, launch a retreat, or shift careers… 

 

 

And to be honest, I've recently had to remind myself of this main character energy as I've spent the last 5 months build something new for you (I can't wait to tell you all about it!).

 

So yes, sometimes ignorance really is bliss — because it frees us from the fear of getting it wrong. It invites us to lead with intention instead of instruction. And in a world full of recycled strategies and copy-paste dreams…

 

 

So if you’re feeling behind, overwhelmed, or unsure right now, I want you to remember this: You’re not lacking, boo. You’re just being called to build something bold. Something different. Something that’s never been done your way before.

 

 

You don’t need to be the most experienced. You don’t need to wait until you’re 100% ready. You don't need 1000 certifications. You just need to stay curious, stay open, and keep moving forward with heart.

 

 

 

Really take a pause and think about it – and once you do – write down the smallest, simplest step you could take toward that idea — just one. 

 

That’s your challenge this week.
 

Let’s normalize not knowing, boo. Let’s celebrate the bravery of figuring it out as we go. Because you are not behind. You’re just building something bold.

 

Rooting for you…always,

Join me for 7 days of rest, joy, and deep exhale moments at my all-inclusive Pause on Purpose wellness retreats for women who do it all. No emails. No to-do lists. Just you, a powerful community, and the space to breathe again.

 

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