Sometimes the biggest message is - it’s ok to ditch a plan. It’s ok to let a goal go.
It doesn’t mean you’re flaky. doesn’t have to be a problem or mean anything about you. Ditch being so judgey judgey with yourself.
That said if you’re still not getting the traction you want here couple of extra MOT checks to run it through:
👩🔧🧰 Is the goal stated positively - as in something you DO want?
It’s just better for your brain in making stuff happen.
Not to be confused with positive vibes only 💩
👩🔧🧰 Is there a sneaky should in your goal?
No goal can survive a should. Locate it. Ditch it.