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Hi First name / Slothies!
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Fun fact: one of my very first jobs was as a swim instructor and lifeguard. My favorite classes were the littles (8-and-under) and adults. Two totally different age groups, yet the feelings were always the same—sheer terror or sheer excitement. Either you’re over the moon about finally learning to swim (hello, dream vacations!)… or you’re convinced you’ll sink to the bottom and never see another vacation again.
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Both groups reacted exactly the same during lessons. They rushed to get through it. Everyone thought the faster they got into and through the water, the quicker they’d reach their goal. Spoiler: that’s not how it works. All that did was create panic, splashing, and frustration. Not exactly the vibe we were going for.
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What I had to remind my students was this: learning something new takes patience, skill, and intentional movement. Of course, they’d protest—“But everyone else is swimming faster than me!” And yeah, that was true. But those swimmers were at a different stage. They had already practiced what my students were still learning.
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Before you can win medals or dive off a catamaran in the Caribbean, you’ve got to get comfortable with the basics—like breathing and having water on your face. Once you master those, then things start to feel easy, natural, even automatic.
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And that’s why I’m sharing this story—not because I want to teach you how to swim or turn you into Olympic swimmers, but because life works the exact same way. Slowing down isn’t a setback; it’s the path to doing things well and sustainably. When you move at a pace that’s intentional, calm, and steady, you set yourself up for success. When you rush just because everyone else seems to be ahead? That’s where the overwhelm, stress, and exhaustion creep in. Comparison is joy’s biggest thief—and moving at someone else’s pace is a close second.
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So what if it takes you weeks, months, or even years? You’re still doing it. You’re still getting there. And you’re doing it in a way you can actually maintain. Stop forcing yourself into a timeline that doesn’t serve you. Instead, focus on mastering the small things, building muscle memory, and trusting that your version of “slow” is actually what’s going to get you further, faster.
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Slowing down has such a bad rap, and honestly? I’m over it. Time is made up, goals are just destinations, and what everyone else is doing is none of your business. Stick to your lane, move at your pace, and measure yourself only against past versions of you. That’s the fastest, most fulfilling way to succeed. Your time is coming—you just have to stop rushing the process.
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You’ve got this—on your side always! 🦥💛
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XOXO,
Renee