It happens every year, First name / friend.

 

Valentine’s Day sneaks up, and suddenly you're panic-buying a card at CVS or settling for a bouquet from Publix that’s seen better days 

 

This year? Skip the scramble and plan something better. Whether you're into long dinners and wine tastings, jungles and spa days, or full-blown adventure, there's a February getaway with your names on it.

 

Planning ahead for a couple’s retreat isn’t just romantic — it’s smart. Here’s why:

✅ You’ll actually have options (because nothing kills the mood like “sorry, we’re sold out!”)

✅ You can turn the trip into a surprise (especially if their love language is “pack your bags”)

✅ You get to enjoy the anticipation — and isn’t that half the fun?

 

Roses? Forget it. Scroll for a dozen better ways to say “I love you” — no matter how you two like to travel 

When is Europe not romantic? February might not deliver seaside spritzes in Positano or sunny strolls through the streets of Spain — but what it does offer is something else entirely. Think cozy villages, snow-dusted rooftops, and just the right amount of off-season magic.

 

It’s perfect for couples who crave quiet charm and a reason to cozy up.

 

 If your goal is to reconnect, head to Finnish Lapland: If snuggling up in a glass igloo while the northern lights dance overhead isn’t peak romance, what is? Spend your days snowshoeing through silent forests and your nights sipping something warm by the fire.

 

 If you want to wine & dine, head to Bruges, Belgium:  Canals, cobblestone streets, and  bistros serving rich Belgian fare. It’s a city made for hand-holding, fondue, and the perfect box of chocolates.

 

 If you want to explore together, head to the Dolomites, Italy: Snowy peaks, alpine trails, and dramatic views that basically demand a couples selfie. Spend your days working up an appetite on the slopes and your evenings sharing pasta and pretending it’s not your third glass of red.

While everyone else is freezing, you could be sipping cocktails on a beach, watching the waves roll in. February is prime time for warm-weather escapes — no sweaters, no regrets.

 

Perfect for couples who crave sunshine and a nap in a hammock.

 

If your goal is to reconnect, head to the Maldives: Private overwater bungalows, endless turquoise water, and the kind of quiet luxury that makes you forget what day it is. No to-do lists, no distractions — just the two of you and room service delivered by boat.

 

 If you want to wine & dine, head to Anguilla: Chic, low-key, and full of beach bars and beachfront restaurants, Anguilla is all about refined island vibes.  Anguilla is our new Go-To.  I am not a beach person but Sam loves it so I get extra marriage bonus points for planning it.  

 

 If you want to explore, head to Costa Rica: Rainforests, volcanoes, balanced by beach days and jungle lodges. It’s the ideal blend of thrill and chill for couples who can’t sit still for long.

February is a sweet spot for escaping to somewhere that feels far from ordinary. These spots serve up epic scenery and immersive experiences that don’t fade when the tan lines do.

 

Perfect for couples who want a trip that’s as bold as their bucket list.

 

If your goal is to reconnect, head to Bali:  Tropical mornings and jungle villas that were designed for two. You’ll find calm, warmth, and just enough magic to feel like you hit pause on real life.

 

If you want to wine & dine, head to Mendoza, Argentina: Malbecs, mountain views, and vineyard lunches that stretch well into golden hour? Say no more. It’s wine country with just the right mix of wild and wonderful.

 

If you want to explore together, head to Kenya: From sunrise game drives to sundowners in the Mara, Kenya combines adventure with intimacy. Safari by day, stargazing by night.  February is the perfect time to visit before the rainy season.  

You don’t have to cross an ocean to plan something special. These U.S. and Canada-based picks offer just the right amount of romance and charm.

 

Perfect for couples who want a getaway that’s easy to book and even easier to fall in love with.

 

 If your goal is to reconnect, head to Banff, Alberta: Cozy cabins, snowy peaks, and hot springs. It’s practically a Hallmark movie — but better.

 

If you want to wine & dine, head to Charleston, South Carolina: Historic streets, rooftop cocktails, and fabulous hotels.  Come hungry, leave smitten.

 

If you want to explore together, head to New Orleans, Louisiana: Visit in the days leading up to Mardi Gras for the perfect mix of celebration and connection. Music, color, food, and a whole lot of feeling — New Orleans is a vibe.

February cabin fever is real, but so is the list of destinations that shine in the middle of winter. A few more spots that didn’t make the main list but are still full of couple-worthy magic include: Egypt, Brazil, Tulum, and Cartagena.  Especially Cartagena! 

 

P.S. Dreaming of a Valentine’s getaway but didn’t see the one? Hit reply or send me a love note (aka: an email) and we’ll take it from there.

 

P.P.S Sam and I are heading to Japan on October 31-November 18. November 9-15 we will be hiking the Nakesendo Trail, so my response times will be very delayed.  If you want to plan, we need to hop on it right now or wait until my Very tired and likely foot sore self will be back on the 19th.