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The Quarterly Renewal is a living archive–capturing stories, milestones, and reflections to inspire collective renewal and remembrance. 

Welcome to Issue IV.
 
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Rooting—
Who we be, what we do, and why we do it.
You’re reading this in early October, at the beginning of fall in the Western Hemisphere. The days are shorter, the air is cooler, and the season is asking us to slow down. This is the rhythm of nature: turning inward, conserving energy, preparing for rest.
And yet, the culture we live in—driven by capitalism and its demand for constant growth—asks the opposite of us. This time of year, especially in the nonprofit world, is when everything speeds up. End-of-year appeals. Giving season campaigns. The relentless push for “more.”
 
As a founder, I hold a deep tension here. I long for our organization to embody a different way of being, one that honors rest, enoughness, and rhythm. At the same time, we can’t ignore that resources are necessary to keep going, and that means we sometimes have to play within the rules of a game we didn’t create. Some days, it feels like being caught in a spider’s web—wanting to live and lead differently, but knowing there are limits to how far outside of the system we can step.
 
Maybe you feel a version of that too…in your family, in your work, in your own body. The sense of being pulled toward a slower, truer way of life, while also navigating the demands of a culture that refuses to slow down.
 
What grounds me in this tension is remembering that we’re not doing this alone. Together, in this ecosystem, we are practicing something different. Even when we can’t break free completely, we can weave lives that are more rooted in care, in responsibility, and in one another.
 
So, as we enter this final quarter of the year, my invitation is to notice where you can align more with the pace of the season. To choose slowness where you can. To honor rest when it calls to you. And to remember that every step we take together toward living differently is part of the work of liberation.
 
With gratitude for each of you,
Toi Smith
 
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Reflecting—
The work we’ve done and
how it’s shaping us.
Reflect with us on what we’ve been tending to over the last several months…
  • Dreamspace: We hosted our first study circle, reading Sisters of the Yam: Black Women and Self-Recovery by bell hooks together. We’re learning and iterating as we build spaces where Black single mothers can practice truth-telling, and commune with one another in the shared experience of Black single motherhood.
     
  • Forever Flourishing: we’re putting the finishing touches on an artifact that holds the texture and truth of the inaugural cohort’s journey. Stay tuned — we’ll be sharing a link in the coming weeks.
     
  • Holiday Love: We launched our fifth round of Holiday Love and began enrolling financial partners. Applications for eligible Mamas will open in the coming weeks. If you'd like to learn more about joining us as a Financial Partner, giving directly to mama in our community, you can do so here.
     
  • LBSM Orientations: In September, we welcomed a new group of Mamas through our orientation process. Because we’re a mostly virtual organization, these gatherings help us build trust, uphold integrity, and prepare Mamas to join future ecosystems.

We go deeper into all of this in our organizational update, which you can listen to below. Recorded in a podcast-style conversation between our Founder & Executive Director, Toi Smith, and our Director of Operations, Renee Barreto, the update shares the current state and future plans of Loving Black Single Mothers. Together, they reflect on the challenges and successes of the past year and what’s ahead for our work as an organization.
 
 
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Readying—
The intentions guiding us into this season (and beyond).
As we move into the end of this year, our intentions are rooted in facilitating the redistribution of resources to Black single mothers. That means carrying forward Holiday Love while also thinking strategically and creatively about how we resource our work for the long term.
 
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Resourcing—
A collection of beauty, art, and wisdom to nurture our mutual flourishing.
Remember: “I am about life. I’m gonna live as hard as i can and as full as i can until i die. And i’m not letting these parasites, these oppressors, these greedy racist swine make me kill my children in my mind, before they are even born.” - Assata Shakur
 
Listen: LBSM Radio is where we share curated collections of songs that reflect what we’re holding this season…for and with mamas. Tune in to this season's playlist here. 
Art: Ori by Harmonia Rosales
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