THE ART OF JOY

OCTOBER 30, 2025 | EDITION NO. 0047
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The pause is part of the practice.
 
I regularly set the intention that this week, I’ll do yoga.

Only to get to the end of the week without practicing.
 
To help with follow-through, I’ve started putting it on my calendar. In fact, I’ve been scheduling a lot lately: writing tasks, client design work, personal to-dos, even lunch.
 
But this hasn’t led to more yoga.

I have a bad habit of adding it to my calendar… only to disregard it when the time comes. Something else always feels more important — “work” tends to win by default.
 
Yoga is similar to artmaking: I know I enjoy it when I do it, and I always feel better afterward. It’s the starting — the choosing to give it time — that’s hard.
 
Last week, though, I committed to the plan I set for myself.

Wednesday morning rolled around, and after dropping the kids off, I rolled out my mat before heading to the computer.
 
Thirty minutes later — after a practice themed on returning to my power — I began my workday feeling grounded and awake.
 
But after lunch, the effects of not sleeping well the night before started to hit. A quiet voice said, “take a nap.”
 
I resisted at first. The old pattern to push through wanted to lead as I thought about how I’d already taken time out of my day to do something for myself. 
 
Surely I didn’t need more rest. 
 
Then, I paused long enough to listen to what I really needed: Rest was the clear answer.
 
So I put my phone on silent and crawled under the covers. When I woke up an hour later, I felt groggy, unsure if it had helped at all. I returned to my computer to finish a few work items before picking up my girls, and called my work day complete.
 
Habit is persistence in practice.
 
- Octavia E. Butler -
 
1 year old in hospital with tube in mouth and wires connected to head. Head bandage has doodles of rainbows and flowers on it
 
Then something interesting happened.
 
More and more, my girls can fill their after-school time without much need for me, which leaves this small, in-between space before dinner — too early to start cooking, too late to dive back into work.
 
Rested, with bonus time ahead of me, I sat on the couch and opened my computer to explore an idea I’d been holding. Before I knew it, I’d drafted an outline for a three-part email series! Words flowed easily, and I found myself stealing little pockets of time the rest of the evening just to keep writing.
 
That’s when I noticed the real magic: I was being rewarded for giving myself the restoration I needed.
 
Yoga and napping hadn’t taken away from my day — they added to it.
Inspiration had arrived not from pushing through, but from pausing.
This isn’t the kind of work I can plan or schedule. It’s flow work — the kind that only shows up when I’m calm, centered, and clear.
 
Calm, centered, and clear may be my natural state — but modern life pulls me away from it. So I have to make returning to it a practice.
 
I must choose, again and again, the activities that bring me back into alignment.
 
And when I notice the result — the quiet reward that follows — I rewire my brain’s story about rest, about yoga, about how creativity really works.
 
So the next time I see yoga on my calendar, I can confidently choose it over work.

Because I know inspiration is already on its way.
 
 
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Keep reading—there’s more below:
🎨 Creative Invitation: Ten-Minute DIY Earrings for a Pop of Joy
 
Thoughtful questions that can help you find the right creative partner.
 
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Worth Sharing | Calendar | Studio Snapshot
 

 
 
A simple Pinterest video inspired my 10-year-old and me to raid my ribbon and rickrack stash and make these earrings. In about fifteen minutes we created something lighthearted and joyful — proof that creativity grows from simple joy and a willingness to play.
 
Supplies: hoop earrings, scissors, and assorted rickrack or ribbon
Instructions:
  1. Choose a color palette and cut your ribbons to your desired length (mine are about 8").
     
  2. Fold one ribbon in half to make a small loop.
     
  3. Place the loop behind the earring hoop, then pull the loose ends over the front and through the loop..
     
  4. Pull gently to tighten and repeat with your remaining ribbons until you like the fullness.
 

 
 
 
 
 

WORTH SHARING
Repair Over Perfection | Psychologist Dr. Becky Kennedy’s TED Talk is one of those rare pieces that stays with you. She shares why repair — not perfection — is the foundation of healthy parenting. As someone who’s always learning how to show up as the best mom I can, her message felt like a deep exhale. A beautiful reminder that connection matters more than getting it right every time.
 
 

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STUDIO SNAPSHOT
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My desk’s a happy mess of color and collage — rainbow quilt blocks in an old sketchbook, affirmation pages in a desert book, and scraps finding new life in a vintage ledger. I love working across these found surfaces, where no page ever starts blank.

 
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Thanks for reading this edition of The Art of Joy!
 
If you’re new here—hiya! I’m Lexis, the artist, designer + creative guide behind Lexisworks, Most Beautiful Design, and, of course, this newsletter.
 
My work—whether through design or creative workshops—is all about helping others express their unique brilliance with creativity + intention.
 
Every other Thursday, I share honest reflections + creative invitations to support your connection to your Creative Self to help you live with more joy, clarity + meaning.
 
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