OCTOBER 30, 2025 | EDITION NO. 0047 |
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The pause is part of the practice. |
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I regularly set the intention that this week, I’ll do yoga. Only to get to the end of the week without practicing.
To help with follow-through, I’ve started putting it on my calendar. In fact, I’ve been scheduling a lot lately: writing tasks, client design work, personal to-dos, even lunch. But this hasn’t led to more yoga. I have a bad habit of adding it to my calendar… only to disregard it when the time comes. Something else always feels more important — “work” tends to win by default.
Yoga is similar to artmaking: I know I enjoy it when I do it, and I always feel better afterward. It’s the starting — the choosing to give it time — that’s hard. Last week, though, I committed to the plan I set for myself. Wednesday morning rolled around, and after dropping the kids off, I rolled out my mat before heading to the computer.
Thirty minutes later — after a practice themed on returning to my power — I began my workday feeling grounded and awake. But after lunch, the effects of not sleeping well the night before started to hit. A quiet voice said, “take a nap.” I resisted at first. The old pattern to push through wanted to lead as I thought about how I’d already taken time out of my day to do something for myself. Surely I didn’t need more rest. Then, I paused long enough to listen to what I really needed: Rest was the clear answer. So I put my phone on silent and crawled under the covers. When I woke up an hour later, I felt groggy, unsure if it had helped at all. I returned to my computer to finish a few work items before picking up my girls, and called my work day complete. |
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“ Habit is persistence in practice. - Octavia E. Butler - |
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Then something interesting happened. More and more, my girls can fill their after-school time without much need for me, which leaves this small, in-between space before dinner — too early to start cooking, too late to dive back into work. Rested, with bonus time ahead of me, I sat on the couch and opened my computer to explore an idea I’d been holding. Before I knew it, I’d drafted an outline for a three-part email series! Words flowed easily, and I found myself stealing little pockets of time the rest of the evening just to keep writing. That’s when I noticed the real magic: I was being rewarded for giving myself the restoration I needed. Yoga and napping hadn’t taken away from my day — they added to it. |
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Inspiration had arrived not from pushing through, but from pausing. |
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This isn’t the kind of work I can plan or schedule. It’s flow work — the kind that only shows up when I’m calm, centered, and clear. Calm, centered, and clear may be my natural state — but modern life pulls me away from it. So I have to make returning to it a practice. I must choose, again and again, the activities that bring me back into alignment. And when I notice the result — the quiet reward that follows — I rewire my brain’s story about rest, about yoga, about how creativity really works. So the next time I see yoga on my calendar, I can confidently choose it over work. Because I know inspiration is already on its way.
P.S. Turns out, doing less gave me more to say. I’m writing a new series about marketing visibility — how to share your work in a way that feels honest, easeful, and true to you. |
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A simple Pinterest video inspired my 10-year-old and me to raid my ribbon and rickrack stash and make these earrings. In about fifteen minutes we created something lighthearted and joyful — proof that creativity grows from simple joy and a willingness to play. Supplies: hoop earrings, scissors, and assorted rickrack or ribbon Instructions: - Choose a color palette and cut your ribbons to your desired length (mine are about 8").
- Fold one ribbon in half to make a small loop.
- Place the loop behind the earring hoop, then pull the loose ends over the front and through the loop..
- Pull gently to tighten and repeat with your remaining ribbons until you like the fullness.
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Thanks for reading this edition of The Art of Joy! If you’re new here—hiya! I’m Lexis, the artist, designer + creative guide behind Lexisworks, Most Beautiful Design, and, of course, this newsletter. My work—whether through design or creative workshops—is all about helping others express their unique brilliance with creativity + intention. Every other Thursday, I share honest reflections + creative invitations to support your connection to your Creative Self to help you live with more joy, clarity + meaning. I’d love for you to stick around. |
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