where to shop for black friday…
 
hey guys & dolls,
 
just checking in from my little corner of harlem with a hot latte in hand (of course) and all the holiday-mood vibes starting to stir. if you’re anything like me, you’ve been quietly scanning the deals, thinking about gifts, and maybe wondering when the best time is to jump in. well — the time is now.
 
i’ve scoured the sale links and picked my favorite finds for you: things i actually use, things that feel meaningful, and must-gift ideas that won’t feel like “just another deal.” whether you’re shopping for yourself (yes, you deserve it) or for someone you love, i’ve got a curated list ready.
 
also take a look at my blog post with even more deals for you.
 
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🎁 my curated Black Friday picks
here are just a few of the finds you’ll want to tap:
 
  1. a favorite for cozy evenings, perfect for self-care.
  2. giftable, stylish, and supports a smaller brand you’ll love.
  3. NYC-friendly must-have: compact, chic, and built for city living.
  4. limited-time deal — be sure to grab it before it’s gone.
 
(full list of picks is in the link below so you can browse at your own pace.)
 
 
🛍️ how to use this e-mail:
  • Start with one meaningful piece — luggage or a weekend bag for someone who travels, or the Trio for a host or friend.
  • Add one extra small gift — like the lip set — to cover more people on your list without over‑spending.
  • Check stock early — BF deals are great but items move. These picks are intentionally strong, practical buys you won’t regret.
 
🛍️ why this matters
holiday shopping doesn’t have to mean chaos. for me, it’s about thoughtful choices, finding joy in giving and receiving, and supporting brands that align with the values i carry (quality, authenticity, NYC-grounded). plus, jumping in now means you beat the rush — get gifts on time, treat yourself, and avoid the last-minute stress.
 
this holiday season allow me to be the one guiding you and if you ever need links for anything let me know! I make pennies but the pennies help me create content for you! 
 
check out more below & take a look at my entire shop here.
 
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☕ a little city moment before you shop
i took a walk this morning through harlem as the sun rose and the world felt still for a moment. i thought about holiday lights, upcoming vlogs, and how this season always gives me the space to reflect and give back. while you’re browsing deals, maybe take a minute with me — a slow sip, a pause, and a reminder that holiday magic doesn’t start with the sale, it starts with noticing.
 

a week in my life in nyc…

more black friday favorites: 

WITH LOVE & happy shopping!
alessa M. Rodriguez
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