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Your words have the power to change someone’s life.
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Yes, numbers matter.
Sales matter. Revenue matters.
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But there’s one number you’ll never fully know:
how many people you impacted—and to what degree.
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While attending Breakthrough to Success, I implemented one core message from the book: Ask for what you really want.
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That message changed my life.
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During one session, Jack Canfield shared a story about someone who turned their bucket list into a public declaration and received unexpected support to make those dreams happen.
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As I looked around the room filled with CEOs, executives, and entrepreneurs, I thought, If I’m ever going to share my bucket list, this is the room.
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I didn’t even have a list yet and that didn’t stop me from asking if I could share my non-existent list with the group.
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I got a yes!!
That night, I stayed up asking myself a single question over and over:
What do I want?
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I typed everything on a folded 8.5 x 11 sheet of paper.
Then I made 300 copies.
On Saturday morning, after every attendee found my bucket list on their seat, someone tapped me on the shoulder and said,
“I can do this for you.”
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One item on my list was to take seven members of my family to Disney World and stay in a five-star hotel.
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“I don’t have a five-star hotel,” he said,
“but I can do this for you.”
Then he asked a question that changed everything:
What do you want?
Each time I answered, he followed up with the same response:
“What else do you want?”
When I ran out of answers, he said,
“If you don’t know what you want, don’t ask.”
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So I kept asking.
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One week later, my family and I were in Orlando, staying in a beautiful home in a gated community, experiencing Disney World together.
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All he asked in return was that I never share his name. That's it.Â
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That trip taught me something I’ve never forgotten:
The impossible becomes possible when you decide what you want, ask for what you want, share what you want.Â
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So here’s the real question:
Not what you think you can get.
Not what others want for you.
- What do you want?
- And what asks do you still need to make?
Who knows, it might just end up changing the course of your life, like this experience changed mines. This event was a large part of why I wanted to become aÂ