The Wellness Update
January 2026
 
The new year always brings a pull for reflection - a mix of motivation, renewed energy, and the desire to set goals that feel meaningful. We hope your family enjoyed our Family Vision Board Activity and that it sparked conversations about values, growth, and what matters most.
 
As a psychologist and practice owner, this time of year also invites a deeper review: looking at our process, our clinical work, and how well our services reflect our mission. It’s a chance to pause and consider the trends we’re seeing in the children, teens, and families who walk through our doors each week.
 
In 2025, Houston Anxiety & Wellness Center grew in ways that felt both exciting and deeply aligned with our purpose. We launched SPACE parent groups, created children’s CBT camps, added new team members, and expanded our offerings to meet community needs. Our new Resources Page now brings together research-based tools, articles, and education in one place — making it easier for you to find reliable support when you need it most.
 
Most importantly, we supported many of you through hard transitions. We watched kids face avoided situations with new confidence, helped families reduce chaos and build structure, and walked alongside parents navigating moments that felt overwhelming. It is meaningful work, and we’re grateful to be part of your lives.
 
As I reflect on the many children, teens, and parents we worked with this year, a few themes around anxiety stand out. These themes can help us understand what kids are struggling with now and how we can support them in 2026.
What 2025 showed us about anxious kids
1. Avoidance is powerful  (and getting sneakier)
So many kids found themselves avoiding schoolwork, social events, new experiences like learning to drive, or anything uncertain. Avoidance gives quick relief, which makes it incredibly reinforcing. But long-term, it shrinks confidence.
 
Despite this, kids and teens make rapid progress when they learn to face discomfort in small, supported, well-defined steps.
 
2. Perfectionism is rising, especially in high-achieving environments
More kids and teens told us they were terrified of getting things “wrong.” The pressure to be exceptional is increasing, which we know contributes to anxiety, self-doubt, and burnout.
 
Helping kids shift toward flexibility, curiosity, and effort (not outcomes) made a noticeable difference this year.
 
3. Emotion regulation skills need intentional support
Kids are overwhelmed. Academic pressure, screen exposure, fast-paced and over packed schedules, and the still lingering post-pandemic ripple effects play a real role in children and teens feeling like they are always on edge or like the sky is falling.
 
But emotional skills can be taught and practiced. Grounding techniques, naming emotions accurately, and recognizing early signs of escalation are powerful, learnable tools.
 
4. Parents want to help — they just aren’t always sure how
Every parent I meet cares deeply and is trying so hard. The line between supporting a child and unintentionally rescuing them from helpful discomfort can feel blurry. What parents really need is guidance, not pressure.
 
The One Thing I Wish Every Parent Knew About Anxiety:
 
Confidence doesn’t come before bravery; bravery comes first.
Confidence is the result of doing things while anxious.
 
This understanding changes everything about how we approach anxiety at home and in therapy.

Kids don’t wait to feel ready. They grow ready by trying.
 
What to expect in early 2026
We’re anticipating:
  • more academic anxiety as school demands increase
  • social comparison spikes among preteens and teens
  • executive functioning bumps after winter break
  • more families asking how to balance support with independence
A few guiding themes:
  • predictable routines help kids feel anchored
  • small doses of “productive discomfort” build resilience
  • modeling calm (or repairing quickly when we’re not calm) shapes ability
  • effort should be praised more than achievement
 
A Simple 4-Sentence Script for Supporting an Anxious Child
 
Use this anytime your child feels anxious, overwhelmed, or avoidant:
 
“I see you’re anxious, and that makes sense.”
“I believe you can handle this.”
“My job is to support you, not rescue you.”
“What’s one small step we can take?”
 
Save this, use it, pass it along — it’s a powerful tool for reducing accommodations and increasing competence.
 
As we move into 2026, our commitment remains the same: to meet children, teens, and families with evidence-based care, practical tools, and a deep respect for how hard this work can be. Anxiety may show up loudly at times, but with the right support, skills, and guidance, families can move from feeling overwhelmed to feeling capable again. We’re honored to walk alongside you in that process.
 
-Dr. Ivy Ruths, PhD
 
Licensed Psychologist
Founder & Clinical Director
Houston Anxiety & Wellness Center

New At Houston Anxiety & Wellness Center
 
Parent Education
Parent Upcoming Parent Workshops 
Did you know our team regularly partners with schools to support parents and educators? This spring, we’re excited to bring research-based, practical workshops to local school communities—designed to help adults feel more confident supporting anxious kids and teens.
 
 
✨ Managing Test Anxiety: Encouraging Grit (Not Perfection)
 
This workshop helps parents understand how anxiety shows up around testing—and what actually helps.
 
Parents will learn how to:
  • recognize the anxiety–avoidance cycle
  • support children before and during tests
  • build confidence through small, repeated exposures
  • shift the message from “I have to be perfect” to “I can do hard things”
This presentation is especially helpful for schools preparing for spring standardized testing.
 
 
✨ In The Messy Middle: Supporting Anxious Preteens
 
Middle school is a uniquely challenging developmental stage. This parent workshop focuses on practical tools for supporting anxious preteens with clarity and confidence.
 
We’ll cover:
  • how anxiety commonly presents during adolescence
  • communication strategies that reduce reactivity and power struggles
  • ways parents may unintentionally reinforce avoidance—and how to shift course
  • tools that promote resilience, flexibility, and problem-solving
 
If your school or parent organization is interested in hosting a parent or educator workshop this spring or next fall, simply reply to this email. We’d love to partner with you.
 
Community education
Facebook Live: Eating disorders & OCD
Friday, January 23rd at 11:00am (central)
 
We’re excited to host a Facebook Live Q&A with Dr. Alyssa Hertz alongside Dr. Katie Manganello from the Whole Mind Healing Center.
 
This conversation will explore the often-overlooked overlap between eating disorders and OCD, including how symptoms can present, why these conditions so often co-occur, and what evidence-based treatment looks like when both are involved.
 
How to Join:
Simply visit the Whole Mind Healing Center Facebook page at the start time — no registration required. The live recording will also be available to watch afterward if you’re unable to join in real time.
 
We hope you’ll join us for this informative and practical discussion.
Save The Date! 
CBT + Art Camp Will be back This Summer!
June 15-19, 2026 | 9am-12pm
 
We’re excited to share that our CBT + Art Camp will return this summer after an incredibly positive response last year.
 
This week-long camp will be led by Carla Wall, LPC-A, and is designed for children who benefit from learning emotional and coping skills in a creative, supportive environment.
 
Through hands-on art projects and developmentally appropriate CBT strategies, campers will:
  • learn tools to manage anxiety and big emotions
  • practice flexibility, problem-solving, and self-confidence
  • build emotional awareness in a fun, engaging setting
  • connect with peers in a low-pressure, encouraging environment
This camp fills quickly! More details and registration information will be shared soon—be sure to keep an eye on your inbox if you’re interested.
 
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