Hi First name / Slothy!
I'm not going to lie—this week's newsletter and all content has been tough to write.
My father-in-law passed away on January 10th. And it’s consumed my days, thoughts, and household ever since.
Usually, I have a clear idea of what I want to say and how I want to say it. But this week (practically the whole month)? I've been stuck. Stepping away from being online has stalled me in a way I didn't think would happen. And now I'm trying to figure out how to get back into the swing of things!
Here's the thing about feeling stuck: It's a totally normal feeling and most of the time it has nothing to do with our abilities. It has more to do with our relationship with the unknown and lowkey being scared it won't work out.
But staying where we are doesn't help either. Our only choice is to try, is to make some sort of step so we can get unstuck.
Take me for example!
I've been overthinking, rewriting, trying to make it "good enough." All because I'm afraid that whatever I create these days won't feel the same now that I'm in my sad girl era.
And then I realized: Maybe the point isn't to show the ideal but to just be real with you.
Grief is weird, uncomfortable, unpredictable, and heavy, but it's also revealing things I didn't know I needed to see. Things like how it impacts your routines, how more people get it then not, how the more you talk about it the harder it is and how focusing on everything but grief is super helpful for living through it. These lived experiences are fueling my content topics and helping me get unstuck. So instead of focusing on things I can't control and worrying about it flopping, I'm choosing to just share what's actually happening.
By sharing what's actually happening I'm still bringing value and helping others who may be experiencing the same feel seen, heard and supported.
This epiphany also helped me to decide on my word for the year. Tomorrow is my birthday—which I call my personal New Year. So I like to have a word that guides me. This year's word is Invest.
I want to be fully invested in my health, wealth, knowledge, spirit, relationships, and purpose. It's not a surface-level word by any means. It requires consistency, quality, and breaking free of my comfort zone. When you invest you're really drilling in, even if the outcome is unknown and the payout isn't immediate. Which is the chapter of life I am in right now.
So I'll leave you with this: if stuck is the feeling you're experiencing, be real with yourself. Get real about what you need. and take a step! That's it. Sounds overly simple, but sometimes it really is that simple. Not everything is complex, profound, or complicated. Usually, the simplest answer is the answer.
My question for you this week is:
- What's one area where you're feeling stuck? Reply and let me know.
And if you're not stuck right now, this is your question:
- Do you have a word of the year? Hit reply and tell me. I'm curious what you're calling in.
XOXO,
Renee