Happy Sunday Everyone! This week I want to talk about the mentality of the right way and the wrong way to do things. We grow up believing or rather being conditioned into believing that there are only two sides to a coin, that the world is black and white and that there is a right way and a wrong way to do things.

 

But I have found this is false, there are more sides to a coin then heads and tails there is also the outer rim and life is not black and white it is actually grey and that in some things in life there is no such thing as a right or wrong way to do things.

 

I find that people will actually get paralyzed with the fear of doing something wrong so they don't even try to do it. I find this especially with the spiritual side of things. Many people are afraid to try meditation, prayer, and tapping into their intuition because they are afraid they will do it wrong.

 

There is no wrong way to do these things. It is whatever resonates with your soul. When it comes to meditation it is about finding whatever helps to ground you and bring your mind, body and soul to the present moment. It doesn't matter what you do to get there, for me it's washing dishes, reading a good book, crafting, writing - these are just a few ways I meditate.

 

Don't allow yourself to get caught up on societies expectations of things, if it feels good to you then do it, as long as it does not harm anyone, anything or yourself. Pray however you want, meditate however you want. Do not be afraid to explore new things and try just because your ego tells you that you may do it wrong. After all it's also how we learn and grow right?

 

Freedom comes when you stop worrying about what someone else is going to think. If it feels good to you, if it feeds your soul and gives you inspiration DO IT! Do not allow fear of right and wrong hold you back.

 

I love seeing people who aren't afraid of their authenticity. They do not care what others think or what others opinions are. They live their true self and I love seeing that. Right now we are living in a world where a lot of people are busy telling other people the “right” way to live and love. But according to whom? God? God gave us free-will for a reason. God wants you to spread your wings and fly and not conform to the pressures of society.

 

Let go of the mentality of right and wrong, black and white and see that there is so much more to the life then this two-dimensional thinking. After all we are not two-dimensional beings so why are we limiting our thinking and beliefs?

 

Just imagine how far you will fly when you stop worrying about being or doing something wrong. What is something that you have put off trying because of this fear? What would happen if you stopped listening to the fear and just did it anyway? 

 

Never allow fear or a society of people to define what is right for you. Breathe, play, pray, eat, live whatever is authentic to you and never mind the rest.

 

Remember, do what you will, but cause harm to none including yourself!

 

 

 

 

If you have additional questions about Spiritual Counseling/Guidance and if it is for you, please feel free to contact me via e-mail at spiritualpathwaysnh@gmail.com.

 

Namaste,

 

Pat Laurino

Intuitive Energy Healer/Spiritual Psychic/Medium

 

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