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Returning to the Heart of What Matters
Spring is an invitation to pay attention to what is sprouting within one’s nature. It is also a call to not forget what is most important. Nature as a teacher has shown me that each Spring is an opportunity to be with the aliveness of each moment in such a way that reveals the most essential wisdom – life is so precious.
With each inhale I take a breath… I am aware of how precious life truly is. With each exhale, I release the very essentials of my continuation of life itself and I share this experience with every tree on our beloved Earth. I feel the breeze of winds passing and the whisper of the ancestors to not turn away each moment. The intimacy of a reciprocated life begins with the recognition that our lives have never been our own alone.
Every breath is shared.
Every grief has been carried by others before us.
Every joy ripens through relationship.
Even the body is made of the same elements that formed our universe.
The invitation that Spring provides is to feel how close we actually are:
To one another.
To the land.
To the ancestors.
To great mystery.
And most importantly to the unseen labor of countless beings sustaining life.
The intimacy is in the softening of separation.
Opening ourselves up to what is calling for our attention.
To let the world touch us.
To let sorrow matter.
To let beauty change us.
To let love be boundless and vast.
To sustain what is precious.
To deepen matters of the heart.
To widen one’s possibilities beyond boundaries and borders.
I leave you with these words from an important stranger whose journey I recently discovered — he is one year into honoring the life of his beloved partner Ximena, whom he lost too soon.
“Do not wait until your loved ones are sick to gather them close. Do not wait until a funeral to tell people what they have meant. Do not wait for the ‘right moment’ to make the call, send the message, book the trip, mend the rupture, say I love you, say I forgive you, say thank you. Have the last conversation while there is still time to have it. Or — better — have the conversation now, so it never has to be the last.” — Tony Cho
With gratitude,