Real (approachable) Style Advice for Real (grown-up) Women with 

Real (smart) Budgets

Dear First name / friend,

Every year as I head into summer (my favorite season), I have visions in my head of what these three months will be like—and who I’ll be.

 

The person who sits on the beach reading all those classic books I mostly skimmed in college, hosts effortless cocktail parties, walks 8 gazillion steps a day, and has finally mastered her forehand.

 

Every year, the reality is a little less glamorous and a lot more normal.

 

And as I approach 60 (gulp), I’m completely content with that less glamorous, more normal reality.

 

So, no more dreams of perfectly cooked meals (not happening) or Instagram-worthy cocktail parties (cheese and crackers will do just fine). And the onslaught of boys and their friends headed this way over the next few weeks, I’m officially letting go of any hopes for a perfectly organized, uncluttered house. I’ll work on that in February.

 

Instead, I’m focusing on what actually matters: being present, appreciating the people I love, and enjoying this season for what it is—not what I imagined it might be.

 

So let’s all try to let go of the comparison game, stop chasing perfection, and make the most of the summer that’s right in front of us. 

 

And thank you for being here with me. ❤️

A client asked how to create a comfortable but not “schlumpy” summer uniform—and judging by the response to this reel, she wasn’t alone.

Most of us have outfits for going out. But what about the days we’re staying home, going for walks, running errands, and living real life? This week’s reel shares three simple outfit formulas for creating a casual summer uniform that feels comfortable and pulled together.

Watch here 👇🏼

Stylish Sun Protection

Because the best anti-aging product is still staying out of the sun. ☀️

 

This stylish UPF 50+ hat offers serious sun protection without sacrificing style. It’s lightweight, packable, ponytail-friendly, and perfect for any outdoor activity, from travel, to beach/pool/lake to watching the kids' sports. This is a trusted, quality brand with lots of styles and sizes to choose from HERE. 

 

Smart Tip: A baseball cap protects your face. A wide-brim hat protects your face, ears, cheeks, and neck—areas that often show sun damage first.

I found a great men’s option too…

This classic Tilley Airflo Sun Hat offers excellent sun protection without looking overly sporty or “outdoorsy.” It’s a favorite among golfers, travelers, walkers, boaters, and anyone who spends a lot of time outside.

✅ UPF sun protection

✅ Lightweight and breathable

✅ Comfortable in hot weather

✅ Classic style that works almost anywhere

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That's it for today!  Thanks for being here. 

Have a great week ahead, and remember to #justgetdressed. ✅👍🏼

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