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Well, this morning I turned the heat on for the first time. That's all I have to say about the weather.🥶
 

I also found out (thank you, Alexa) that January 1 is just 75 days away. That's about 10 weeks.
 

I've never been a big fan of New Year's resolutions, but I AM a big believer in the power of small daily habits. And I like the idea of using January 1 as the finish line rather than waiting for it to be the starting line.
 

So what am I going to work on over these next 10 weeks?

Well, in my case, it's actually about breaking a habit I've developed. One that I fear has become a bit of an addiction.
Reaching for my phone first thing in the morning. And in particular, scrolling social media.
 

I use the excuse that social media is "part of my job," which is true. But there is absolutely no reason I need to head down that insidious rabbit hole at 6:30 in the morning. 🙄
 

So I've come up with a plan for myself that I'm calling The 10 Before 10.
 

Now hear me out…These aren't 10 new things I'm trying to squeeze into my mornings. They're things I already do most days, or at least eventually get around to doing. 
 

The problem is that my phone has a way of turning what should be a pretty straightforward morning into a drawn-out, distracted affair. I'll start one thing, check my phone, get sidetracked, and before I know it, half the morning is gone. (Can anyone relate??)
 

So the goal isn't to DO more. It's to get the things I already want to do DONE, without letting my phone hijack the morning.
 

And that's where my 10 Before 10 comes in.

Ten simple things, done before 10 a.m. and before I allow myself to get sucked into my phone.

And why the 10 a.m. deadline? Because I also have a tendency to drag out my morning routines and delay the actual start of my day. I want to get these things done and get on with it!

But I'm also NOT interested in some regimented 5 a.m. morning routine. That's just not realistic for me.

So that's my plan for the next 10 weeks. Not a major life overhaul, just a little structure and a few small daily decisions that I hope will add up to a better morning routine by January 1.

 

And the beauty of this is that everyone's 10 Before 10 will look different. Yours might include walking the dog, reading, making breakfast, or tackling one household chore.  

 

The point isn't to copy someone else's morning routine. It's to figure out what YOU want to get done before the distractions of the day take over.

 

Anyone else have a habit they'd like to build (or break!) before the new year? Maybe January 1 could be your finish line, too.

Now, here’s what went on in B.Styled this week...

1. 🎥 Reel Recap: Pant Length + Shoes: Figured Out

One pair of pants, three different shoes, and a few small adjustments. In this reel, I show how I wear the same straight-leg cords with flats, sneakers, and booties, adjusting the hem for each. Before you commit to a shorter length, try these options with a pair you already own.

A quick note: These tips apply to straight-leg or slim pants and jeans. If your turned-under hem won’t stay put, a little fashion tape can help hold it in place without committing to a permanent hem.

2.Your One-Stop Shop for All Things B.Styled

Did you know that BStyledByBeth.com is more than just a place to learn about my styling services?

I've made it easy to find all kinds of helpful resources in one place, whether you're looking for something you missed or want to revisit a tip I shared.

 

Here's what you'll find:

👉🏼 Past Weekend Updates & Just a Wednesday notes so you can catch up on anything you missed.

👉🏼 Video replays & style tips so you can watch (or rewatch) my Reels and styling advice in one place - including the corresponding shopping links. 

👉🏼 B.Styled resources & services, including my Style Systems, personal styling options, and the new FREE #justgetdressed Wardrobe Quiz.

 

Think of it as your B.Styled home base. Instead of scrolling through emails or social media trying to find something I mentioned, start at my website!

And here's a tip: Bookmark the site so it's always just a click away! 😘

Updating Your Fall Lip Color

A simple way to update your look for fall? Try a new lip color!

 

Of course, your skin tone, natural lip color, and personal preferences all play a role in finding your most flattering shade. There's no one lipstick that works for everyone.

 

But if you're looking for something a little richer for fall, without going too dark or dramatic, I've got three options worth trying.

 

For everyday, I like sheer, moisturizing formulas that add a little color and brightness without looking heavy or settling into every little line.

 

 

💄 Clinique Almost Lipstick in Black Honey: A sheer berry shade that looks much darker in the tube than it does on your lips. A good choice if you want a little more color for fall without committing to a bold lipstick. This is my personal go-to lately. 
This one is very similar for less, and available at your drugstore too. 
 

💄 Clinique Almost Lipstick in Pink Honey: A softer, rosier alternative to Black Honey. Great if you prefer a lighter, more natural everyday lip.
 

💄 Bobbi Brown Extra Lip Tinted Balm in Bare Raspberry: A sheer berry tint in a moisturizing, balm-like formula. A nice option if comfort and hydration are your priorities. The Bare Blackberry looks like a great option too. 

 

And remember, you don't necessarily need a whole new makeup routine for fall. Sometimes a slightly different lip color is all it takes to freshen up your everyday look.

#justgetdressed 😘

That's it for today!  Thanks for being here. 

Have a great week ahead, and remember to #justgetdressed. ✅👍🏼