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For you this week: Being a business owner is full of moments of vulnerability. We're all out here faking it till we make it.
 
One of those moments happened just last week, when I was super secretly setting up the new Discord community chat space, the Body Liberation Blanket Fort. 
 
What I didn't know was that when I linked Discord and Patreon, all of my patrons who had already linked their own Discord accounts with their Patreon accounts would be immediately dumped into the new server.
 
I hadn't even made an announcement to my patrons yet that I was working on this! So much confusion! Aaaaaaa!
 
I thought about unhooking the Discord from Patreon so no one would know I'd messed up. I thought about apologizing.
 
And then I took a deep breath and said, you know what? No one's perfect. I didn't know what I didn't know. And owning my imperfections gives other people to be imperfect, too.
 
Come join us imperfect beings. To get access, support my Patreon at any level. It starts at $1 USD per month (and if that's a hardship for you, please let me know and I'll be happy to give you free access). Once you join the Patreon, I'll send you instructions for getting in. See you there! >>

Hi friend,
 
I'm taking some time off this week, so if you didn't get time to read last week's newsletter, here's your chance.
 
Let's talk about research.
 
When it comes to weight and health, everyone's a scientist. People who haven't picked up a textbook in twenty years are suddenly confident that they know more about fat people's bodies than the fat people themselves do.
 
What's more, they know just what fat people should be doing (or not doing) with their bodies, and they get real indignant when challenged. So their next demand is always that we prove our claims about fatness, primarily that we don't have a way to make fat bodies thin in the long term.
 
Well, first:
 
No, you prove it. If you're making claims that diets DO work, surely it would be easy to come up with a single peer-reviewed study showing that a significant number of participants lost more than 10% of body weight and kept it off for five years, right?
 
Right?
 
What, there's a $78 billion industry making the same claims you are, and even with all that funding there's not a single study that proves there's a way to reliably make fat people into thin people.
 
Huh. Weird.
 
Maybe you should stop pestering fat people to prove that diets don't work until you have a shred of evidence that they actually do.
 
Second:
 
Let's talk about what "proving it" means in the context of research, studies and academia.
 
Weight stigma is rooted in racism (see Dr. Sabrina Strings' invaluable work Fearing the Black Body for all the cites you could ever want), and both Black people and fat people (populations which, of course, overlap) have historically been excluded from academia.
 
In fact, right now I personally know four different fat folks who are trying desperately to attend grad school, whose universities won't even allow them full access to classrooms by providing chairs and desks they can actually use.
 
This means that almost all research on and about fat people is being done by thin people. I'm not going to mince words here: A population of people who have historically oppressed fat people, and who have a hell of a vested interest in continuing to oppress fat people, is in charge of research on fat people.
 
Hmm. What does that sound like to you? Doesn't sound like a recipe for good science to me.
 
Third:
 
Demanding research before you'll believe anything fat people say is one way of displacing discomfort with fatness by prioritizing the lens of thinness.
 
In plain terms, that means you won't believe anything a fat person says unless a thin person says it too. 
 
This is especially true when it comes to qualitative research. Oh, you won't believe my lived experience when I tell you, but you'll believe it after a thin person has collected it, approved it, moved their career forward with it and published it?
 
Bless your heart.
Warmly,
Lindley
 
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I'm Lindley, and I work for liberation for all bodies

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Hi! I'm Lindley.

 

I'm a photographer and activist (she/her, pronounced LIN-lee) who celebrates the unique beauty of bodies that fall outside conventional "beauty" standards. I live outside Seattle, WA. People come to me for:

  • Body-safe portrait, boudoir and small business photography sessions
  • Diverse, body-positive stock photos & fine art prints
  • Health at Every Size (HAES)-aligned editorial services and consulting
  • The Body Love Shop, a curated resource for body-positive and fat-positive art and products

Get details on all my offerings at bodyliberationphotos.com.

 

"Every weight loss program, no matter how positively it’s packaged, whispers to you that you’re not right. You’re not good enough. You’re unacceptable and you need to be fixed. I officially reject that message. I reject it for myself, and I reject it on your behalf, too." 
 
» Kim Brittingham, Read My Hips: How I Learned to Love My Body, Ditch Dieting, and Live Large

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