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BANDIT
a Digital Digest for Modern Relationships

vol. 2, no. 9

 
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Date Night: We'll have fun, fun, fun!

With clever, outside-the-box date ideas more thoughtful than the typical dinner and a movie, we're eliminating the guesswork and making date night effortless for couples. This month, we're going with retro classics and a modern twist.
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Delicious: Happy New Yorkers and tourists alike savor primo Italian food, music, and colorful processions at the iconic Feast of San Gennaro! No admission, happening now through September 24th. (TimeOut NY)
Decadent: What's more rich than sharing big, belly laughs with your better half? Ilana Glazer (Broad City) continues her Live stand up tour this fall. Check listings for tickets near you. (Bandsintown)
Different: Share a banana split and a couples skate at your local roller rink. New Yorkers can skate at the iconic Rock Plaza now through September 24th. (Rockerfeller Center)
 
A Couple Finds

A specially curated selection of thoughtful items, from helpful tools for entertaining to fun surprises for cozy nights in, designed to delight and enhance your life together.
 
 
 
 

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Steal This Itinerary: Meet Me in Montauk

Quick, easy, and budget-friendly travel ideas including unexpected locales and original takes on classic destinations—perfect for adventurous couples or families looking to get off the beaten path.This month, we're heading east to enjoy an autumn-kissed Montauk without the crowds.
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When to go: For the best deals on accommodations go mid-week, just after Labor Day but before winter settles in. The water is still warm enough to surf and the crowds have mostly dissipated. (Vogue)
Where to stay: Nightly fire pits with complimentary s'mores and courtesy tarot readings. A barefoot luxury boutique resort with great wifi and stunning views. (Marram)
What to eat: From clam bars to five stars, enjoy the stacked restaurant scene without the summer hustle and bustle. (Restaurant Guru)
What to do/see: Visit the iconic Lighthouse, enjoy the beach, tour Montauk Brewing Company, do some antiquing, hike to the creepy abandoned military base that inspired Stranger Things, or do nothing at all. (Escape Brooklyn)
 
Bandit Round-up

From around the web, our favorite newsworthy and notable pop culture moments exploring all things relationships. 
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  • 👀 Side eye. SIDE EYE! What do you do when you can't stand the sight of your best friend's partner? (Refinery29)
  • 💋 Five pretty compelling reasons couples should prioritize their marriage above all else. And yes, that means even above the kids. (Psychology Today)
  • 🤗 Want better sex? Communication! But also, do it yourself! Start solo and figure out what makes you go-go. (Vox)
  • 🚢 Ahoy, mates! Stormy seas ahead! 9 signs your relationship is on course for trouble, and how to steer clear. (Fatherly)
Firestarter: Kindle a Convo with your Partner

In each issue of BANDIT, we'll suggest a conversation starter to help connect deeper with your partner. 
 
When have you ever felt most at home? Describe the rituals, the sights and scents.
 

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