Hi friend,
The situation in Gaza is weighing on me so much this week, as is the grief of Palestinians and Jews at the occupation of Palestinian land by the state of Israel.
Opining on these events is far out of my lane, so I encourage you to hope over to
this email from Vicky Bellman at Concentric Counselling for wisdom and resources.
"I think that part of the reason for trolling is the assumption that everyone's bodies work the same way. At least some of the trolls are thin without trying to be, so they may assume that everyone else's "baseline" weight is similar, and that fat people have been intentionally overriding their bodies' signals about how much food is "enough".
(Everyone has overridden their body's signals at SOME point in their life...I don't want to go off on a tangent about that, though). They may see this as a matter of disrespecting one's body and health.
What they don't know/understand is that most (nearly all?!) fat people have attempted to reduce their weight by using methods that involve disregarding their bodies' signals, and that many fat people are the size they currently are (at least in part) because they used these methods in the past.
Basically, at least some thin people likely think that because they don't have to do anything to maintain their thinness, fat people must be engaging in "outrageous" (by their standards) behaviours in some kind of act of defiance against their own health."
This week, let's look at a specific cause of fat hatred: the just-world fallacy.
Our culture wants us to believe that bodies are simple machines with simple rules. Calories in vs. calories out. Do this, be healthier; do that, be unhealthier.
The laughable wrongness of this view is made obvious by science, common sense and the fact that fat people still exist.
But this belief in “do X, get Y result” simplicity dovetails neatly with the just-world fallacy, “the cognitive bias that a person’s actions are inherently inclined to bring
morally fair and fitting consequences to that person; thus, it is the assumption that all noble actions are eventually rewarded and all evil actions eventually punished.”
Thus, fat people’s flawed bodies are evidence both of their flawed inhabitants (because, of course, compliance with beauty standards is extremely simple unless one is somehow perverse or defective) and flawed minds (because anyone who can’t understand and follow such simple rules must be of low intelligence.)
This belief in thinness as evidence of moral superiority can drive the dehumanization of fat people by thin people. Unfortunately for these believers, fatness (and physical disability) are closer to them than they would like to believe.
