Hi friends,
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I hope you got the chance to read
last week’s edition, as some of you, my dear thoughtful readers, sent me messages that resonated. Thank you.
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I am sure many of you are dreading what’s to come this week and the near future. According to The Atlas of the Heart: “Dread occurs frequently in response to high-probability negative events; its magnitude increases as the dreaded event draws nearer.”
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I am here to remind you of hope, also referring to the same book:
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“We need hope like we need air. To live without hope is to risk suffocating on hopelessness and despair, risk being crushed by the belief that there is no way out of what is holding us back, no way to get to what we desperately need. But hope is not what most of us think it is. It’s not a warm, fuzzy emotion that fills us with a sense of possibility. Hope is a way of thinking—a cognitive process. Yes, emotions play a role, but hope is made up of what researcher C. R. Snyder called a “trilogy of goals, pathways, and agency.”
We experience hope when:
- We have the ability to set realistic goals (I know where I want to go).
- We are able to figure out how to achieve those goals, including the ability to stay flexible and develop alternative pathways (I know how to get there, I’m persistent, and I can tolerate disappointment and try new paths again and again).
- We have agency—we believe in ourselves (I can do this!).”
Let’s check the hope trilogy against our cause:
- We have a clear unified goal. Freedom.
- Unlike few weeks ago, we finally believe we have a pathway and agency; to use our voices and speak up.
When it comes to our cause, hope is inevitable.