Clear is kind.
I must either believe I deserve help, or act from a place of what if I believed I deserve it?
Have the money conversation, then put everything in writing.
Be as demanding as you are nice.
It's really okay to be the CEO of your projects and career, to be the big boss bitch, to spend your hard earned money paying someone else to do what you don't want to do. You are buying freedom.
Is this kind to me? I ask that question when choosing people to work with. Will having them on my team be a kindness to me?
Not just regarding artwork, but life in general, allow yourself the vulnerability to ask for help. It is not an indication of failure or something to apologize for.
Your value is not tied to how willing you are to burn yourself out.