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Hi All. I'm resharing (with a few small tweaks) a newsletter I published April 2023.
 
As we approach the end of the year I thought it was a timely, compassionate reminderParticularly for anyone who's feeling “behind” ❤️. 
 

I have a lot to thank Krista Tippett for and this language, from this podcast, is one of those things:
 
“Time is long.”
 
Giving yourself the gift of time is one of the kindest, most valuable things you can do for yourself as a business owner.
 
(Or as a person who wants to be in anything long term. A friendship. A romantic relationship. Your body. Your community.)
 
Here’s what it might look like to take the long view of time in your business:
 
 
— Stretch out your timelines. 
 
Give yourself longer to reach your income goal, to pay off your debt, to make that new hire, to wind down your business, to leave your job, to finish your degree… Where would a longer timeline remove false urgency and loosen your nervous system?
 
 
— Right-size your expectations. 
 
What would you do differently if you assumed it was going to take you 5 years, not 5 months, to get your business where you want it to be? What if you knew you had 20 good hours a week, not 40? Root your expectations—your rhythms, your routines, and your metrics—in the reality of your own life.
 
Offer yourself, as Krista says, “a long, reality-based view of time.”
 
 
— Build generous containers. 
 
Any container needs to leave room for life. Does your business model have a buffer, or do you need to be fully booked for things to “work”? Does your marketing strategy rely on you being in the same energetic state every week? Do the rhythms of your months leave room for play?
 
 
— Make it a practice. 
 
Does your financial stability rely on a favourable response to one email, one sale, one grant application, or one pitch? Most activities in your business are practices, not one-and-done events. Make a routine of your marketing and sales activities. This is fortifying for your nervous system. It allows you to show up deliberately while holding the outcome loosely.
 
 
— Be in conversation. 
 
Monthly reviews. Project debriefs. Quarterly check-ins. Semi-annual partnership meetings. Your relationships—with yourself, others, your money, and your work—underpin the longevity of your business. Develop them.
 
Keep listening. Keep adjusting.
 
That's truly half the gig.
 
 
— Support the body. 
 
What does your body need to keep doing this work? What are the specifics of your care? A business model that doesn't support the realities of our energetic/mental/physical needs is one we'll likely avoid pursuing. 
 
 
In short…
 
What allows?
 
Time is long.
 
What are the behaviours, activities, and beliefs that allow you to stay in this for the long term?
 
 
Reply and let me know :)
 
 
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NEWS & UPDATES
 
  • Save The Date 📅: I'm hosting a Year End Reflection Workshop on Thursday, December 19th from 1-2:15pm ET. This is a great way to "be in conversation with your business"! Full info & registration coming next week
  • This week I got to moderate a panel at FP Canada's Financial Planning Week. It was an honour to be trusted by this national organization to develop and guide a meaningful conversation among three very accomplished women in the financial planning field. I was once again reminded that here I am, continuously fulfilling my dream of being paid to ask questions for a living 😉
  • In the spirit of things being a practice: this spring I applied for a $20K award to publish a near-and-dear to my heart project. I found out in the summer that I was shortlisted. I found out this week that I didn't win. I am proud of pitching (video & written—good practice!). I am proud of being shortlisted. But mostly I'm proud of taking the first in a series of many steps to bring a meaningful project to life. There are many doors in to the things we want. My long view is knowing that, and not giving up after the first door.
  • If this email sparked ideas for your own business that you'd like to develop with me (what are your marketing practices? what's your reality-based growth plan for 2025?), join my 1:1 waitlist so I can let you know when I'm re-opening for new clients in the New Year. 
P.S. I’ll leave you with one of my favourite quotes from that podcast…
 
“We have to sink into time’s capaciousness. Feel it in our body as much as take it in as an idea. Taking in a long view of time is such a relief. It is profoundly calming. A long, reality-based view of time has the power to replenish our sense of ourselves and the world.”
 
Pretty good, yes??
 
 
 
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