Feels like I need to take a Valium before diving into this discussion on value perception and pricing. But here we go!
 
“Value” is such a loaded word when you have ADHD. And it's no wonder. Your entire life you've been told you're “too much,” or “not enough.” 
 
Truth: I'm still sorting through it. And probably will be forever. 
 
So let's talk about it.
 
TLDR on Value / Pricing
  • Your value has nothing to do with your pricing. Full Stop.
     
  • Why ADHDers struggle with value perception.
     
  • Raise prices without frying your nervous system.
     
  • Make it routine, and have a bottom line.
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Value 
 
 
Kinda hard to value yourself when you've been told “you're too much,” or “not enough,” your whole life. And that sense of self-worth (or lack of it) can find it's way into your pricing.
 
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“Value” is real, but it's not definable.
 
And that's problem number one, ADHD brains HATE undefined shit. You'll make shit up just to feel more comfortable, including pricing based on how you feel about yourself.
 
 
But value-based pricing depends on:
  • who you’re talking to
  • what problem they have
  • how urgent that problem feels
  • how painful the problem is
  • how much budget they have
  • how ready they are to change
  • what they’ve already tried
  • how they understand the outcome
  • how confident they feel with you
 
What it doesn't depend on?
How you feel about yourself
 
 
And that's a good thing. Because if you price based on how you see yourself, you're usually in a race to the bottom. 
 
However, there are things you can do to keep you out of your pricing, and we're gonna look at 5 of them.
 


Regulate Before You Price
 
If your nervous system feels threatened, you'll seek safety, i.e., underprice.
 
So, before you decide on a price or raise it, ground yourself.
 
Regulation Tools:
 
  • Box Breathing: tutorial
     
  • Cold Water Reset: splash cold water on your face or run it over your wrist for 10 seconds
     
  • Somatic Truth Check: noticing how does this feel in my body? Kinda uncomfortable is good. But if you feel like you just stepped on a lego, adjust.

 
Build a Proof Folder
 
Your brain defaults to the negative. In other words, it highlights your potato days instead of your genius ones. 

But you're allowed to have both—you're not in a 9 to 5. Your day-to-day doesn't matter nearly as much as the results you get.
 
 Stop potato pricing. 
 
Create an external reminder of the good stuff—a Google Doc / Notion etc with:
  • screenshots of praise
  • client testimonials
  • transformations
  • analytics
 
Have evidence ready when you're feeling wobbly. 

Use Anchors for Pricing, Not Vibes
If you want to be confident in your pricing, you need to determine a few things first.
 
  • How many hours does this take?
  • How much energy does it cost?
  • What transformation do they get?
 
The last one is especially important. When something feels easy to you, you can feel suspicious about it's value. 
 
But let's say your hourly rate is $125. 
 
You build a system in 2 hours that brings in 200k in revenue for your client over the next 2 years. 
 
Should you charge $250? 
(spoiler alert: NO)
 
Just because it's easy to you, doesn't mean it's easy. Otherwise everyone would do it. 
 
Charge accordingly.
 

Price Raising Routine 
 
If you wait to raise your prices until you feel ready, you'll stay underpaid.
 
So, set a reminder to raise your prices. Either quarterly or every 6 months. Make it a routine, instead of a reaction. 

You don't have to raise them so high you're crawling out of your skin, but raise them—try 15%. 
 
Once you have a few new clients at the higher rate, and a testimonial or two, let your existing clients know you're raising your prices.
 
If they can't afford the spike, let them go or change the scope. It's okay. You have proof you can get clients at higher rates. 
 
 
Remember: your skills are increasing along with inflation. 
 
Own that shit, babe. 
Raise your rates with confidence. 
 
Pro Tip: If you're struggling to increase your pricing, imagine buying eggs in 2027 at your current rates.
 
Just saying.

Minimum $$$
Finally, set a price minimum. It's the lowest amount possible before you start resenting the client or working at an hourly rate that won't pay your bills.
 
 Depending on what you do, there may be room for negotiation. But go into it knowing your bottom line.
 
And understand that not everyone can afford you. Even though you want to help everyone, you're not for everyone. If someone can't pay your rates, point them to your free resources or a lower cost option.
 

 
You're building a business that supports you in every way, including financially. Make offers that meet your financial goals, not the other way round. 
 
But no matter what your pricing or bank account shows, you are valuable—just as you are.
 

 
I'll see you soon.
Until then…
 
May your mind, belly, and wallet always be full.
 
Neurodivergently Yours,
Alex
P.S.
If you're still pricing like a potato instead of a porsche, holler at your girl. I'll hype you up like a 2 am drunk bar bestie. 
 

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